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14 Dec 08 #72494 by Squiddly
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I'm trying to help my bf fill in form D8a which is difficult as the children live with his wife (the respondent) and the form doesn't appear to be designed for this sort of situation.

I know that DL said this is just a fault in the design of the form but I was wondering if anyone had any tips they could give me.

Thank you for your help.

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14 Dec 08 #72495 by dukey
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Hello

If you say which part your stuck with someone will talk you through it.

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14 Dec 08 #72497 by Squiddly
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OK, where it says "which parentlooks after the children...." (Part 6a) do I write "the respondent", "STBX name" or "her mother"?

In part 7a where it asks "Does your spouse/civil partner
pay towards the upkeep of the children?"

My bf has left the FMH and his stbx wife looks after their daughter, he pays her about 35% of his income to keep the house and look after their daughter, so how do I answer this question?
Do I answer it as if it says "does the non-resident parent (ie me the petitioner) pay...."?

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