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she's moving my children

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02 Feb 09 #85241 by Mrs Ingledew
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GO to the court and keep us informed.

I wish my x wanted his children.

Write them letters, take copies , keep a diary of your life and then when you see them you can talk throught what Daddy was doing ...

you will feel you are sharing with them. And build a memory box for their future!

(though kids tend to think such things soppy)

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03 Feb 09 #85710 by odonnma2
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Hi craig

you need to get your act together and start to look at getting the system to get contact again with your child - you dont always need a solicitor as the law process itself is very simple

If you have PR then you apply for an order using a c100 form form court

Families need fathers can help you do what is needed - they are a charity and run a helpline - give them a call or look them up on the web - they meet in aston

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03 Feb 09 #85802 by Fiona
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In my experience FnF tend to ratchet up grievances and unnecessarily overheat matters leading to intractable situations which is so detrimental for children. It sounds as though you need to make a prohibitive steps application to prevent the children moving schools/nursery, a contact order to re-establish contact and PR for the eldest child urgently. Once the children have been relocated the window of opportunity is lost. Form C100 is available below and you will need C1 for applying for PR;

www.hmcourts-service.gov.uk/HMCSCourtFin...?court_forms_id=2253

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03 Feb 09 #85834 by Kalamari
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Craig, I'm really sorry to hear about your terrible situation. Your children are being treated terribly, they are being taken away from any contact with their father.

The normal and perfectly understandable emotional reaction to this situation is to get very upset with your ex. Unfortunately, if you actually do this you're just feeding justifications for your exclusion to her, and any "authorities" that get involved. So somehow, somewhere else find the outlet you need for expressing your justifiable anger. There's lots of space here for saying what you feel. Then take a deep breath and keep your calm when progressing your uphill struggle with your ex and the authorities. You are going to have to demonstrate your responsibility.

I'm sorry I don't have much practical advice to help you - I've no experience here, my kids were older when I was excluded, effectively of an age where they are considered to make their own decision. Just remember that the system looks for the kids best interests, and probably your best arguement will be to demonstrate that previously you were a regular and fixed part of their lives.

Best wishes mate

Kalamari B)B)

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