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You are wrong.
It is not the behaviour of the respondent that needs to be unreasonable, but that the respondent has behaved in such a way that it would be unreasonable to expect the petitioner to remain in the marriage.
Er, I've already said that.There is no burden of proof requirement for the petitioner if the respondent does not contest or defend the divorce application.
Tell that to Mr Owens, the person whose case we are discussing here and which case is going to act as a precedent in future defended divorces.What you are describing is what you would like the law to be, not what it actually is in legislation and practice.
rubytuesday wrote:
You are wrong.
It is not the behaviour of the respondent that needs to be unreasonable, but that the respondent has behaved in such a way that it would be unreasonable to expect the petitioner to remain in the marriage.
Er, I did not claim otherwise
And the litmus test is whether the man on the Clapham omnibus / Boris bus would consider it unreasonable to expect the Petitioner to live with the Respondent. It's not whether the Petitioner thinks it's unreasonable (as you would have us believe)!
rubytuesday wrote:Er, I've already said that.There is no burden of proof requirement for the petitioner if the respondent does not contest or defend the divorce application.
So, unless a case is proceeding undefended, it falls on the Petitioner to prove their case to the satisfaction of the court. If they can't prove that the BEHAVIOUR was the cause of the marriage breaking down then it doesn't matter how irretrievably broken down the marriage is - the Petitioner is not entitled to a divorce.
The burden of proof rests with the Petitioner and it is a higher barrier than we are routinely led to believe by posts on this forum or utterances by the average family lawyer.
The weakness of any petition that succeeded is irrelevant if the case wasn't contested. So trying to use that as an argument that UB cases are rubber stamped and there is no point in defending is ... dishonest.I have seen countless petitions in my job, some which I would consider as having fairly weak (ie the respondent not putting enough sugar in the petitioner's tea) have been accepted by the court and the divorce granted.
Yes, the traditional thinking is that there is no point in defending and that it is illogical.
I suggest Respondents think again.
There can be numerous good reasons to defend. The Respondent may know that the Petitioner is acting impetuously, for example.
Even if that isn't the case, there may be numerous strategic advantages to defending particularly where the Petitioner is using lawyers and running up a big bill and the Defendant is capable of being an LiP (BTW, LiPs can, in some cases, get 2/3 of the costs that a lawyer would have charged for that same work! CPR 1998 r 46.5)
There are negotiating advantages to defending if the Petitioner is in a hurry and/or wants to remarry.
I can think of half a dozen other circumstances in which it makes sense to defend.
All the talk on this board dissuading Respondents is, AFAIAC, sexist and, further, outdated now (given Owens vs Owens).
As I've said earlier, sorry .Sylvia who tried to argue that there's something exceptional in the Owens case, there aren't any exceptional circumstances in the Owens case. For many petitioners the worst 'behaviour' allegations they can come up with are way, way below those that Mrs Owens had. Respondents in these cases now have a higher chance of winning if they mount a proper defence.
Forseti's argument suggesting that the Owens case may not set a precedent also looks like it's come from someone desperately trying to hold on to status quo.
But I've not heard any argument as to WHY the Owens case is not a valid precedent. It is. And it does change the odds!
Defendants should now consider carefully what they have to gain or lose by defending. If their solicitor blindly advises them that there's no point in defending, my advice to them is to sack the solicitor and find somebody who can take a broader and more strategic view of their individual circumstances and advise accordingly.
Yes, you're right in that ultimately Mrs Owens will get her divorce, but five years is a long time and there will be at least a few Petitioners who will make major concessions to their demands in exchange for a non-contested, quick divorce.
IMO, Respondents shouldn't easily give up their legal right to defend before considering whether that cooperation can be traded against something. So, first, put in a defence, pay the fee and show the Petitioner you're serious about defending.
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