I would normally summarise the pot and the respective needs of the parties first.
We have X, Y and Z assets and a,B,c incomes.
The children spent most of their time with me. They need to remain close their school and community of friendship. I need to be near my well established support community. A suitable property in xxxx are would cost yyyy. I can raise a mortgage of zzz and will have costs to pay so need aaaa from the capital to provide a secure and stable home for the children.
This represents X% of the equity of the
FMH.
XxX has the children every other weekend and does not need to live close to the school. His strict need is an X bed property. This would cost some Xxx. He can raise a mortgage of Yyyy.
Between us there are matrimonial savings of zzzz and pension funds amounting to YY.
Given the disparity in our incomes I believe there is a case for a departure from equality.
My without prejudice proposal is therefore:
Bullet point
Sell FMH and divide proceeds of sale, after costs, xx:YY in my favour.
Sell BTL and divide proceeds of sale after costs and CGT xx:YY in Xx's favour.
Savings in xx account are to be shared equally.
There is to be a pension share of xxxx pension in line with the actuary's recommendations (or other as appropriate). NB costs of pension sharing are normally divided equally.
There is to be a clean break.
I hope you/ your client will give this proposal due consideration. I look forward to receiving a response within X days. ( Always give a deadline)
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