The final order has been granted, it included the X selling the
FMH, keeping all the equity and receiving a lump sum so they can buy a new property mortgage free. This was based on their alleged inability to work and therefore needing financial security. At the time the order was made, the X was claiming JSA - contribution based - while under assessment for ongoing ill-health and CMS for the two children. The final order states that the nominal spousal maintenance payments of £1 per annum are based on X continuing to receive benefits at the same level and CMS for both children
Six months later the house is almost sold, the X is looking for jobs (turns out they weren't as ill as anticipated) and is still claiming UC and CMS for two children. However in the last three months, the child hearing was also resolved, confirming one of the children lives with me as he has been doing for the last 15 months, despite the X claiming otherwise. He is nearly 16 so the court order does not provide a "live with" order, but does confirm his choice to live with me. As such, I would like to stop making CMS payments for him as I have had to do for the last 15 months despite the fact he receives no benefit from them. Unfortunately I have been told by the CMS in order to change the payments, I need to claim the CB for him, which would have the knock-on effect of dropping down the X's UC as well as reducing the CB and CMS payments. When I phoned CMS to talk about this and asked if it were possible for them to still receive CB while changing CMS payments, I was told my payments could be not change without CB. I was also asked why would I want not want to claim as its about where the child lives and to do otherwise is benefit fraud on the X's part?
My question is, if I do claim the CB - to which I am entitled as the child is living with me - given the wording in the hearing, can X take me back to court to vary the order? And do the figures make a difference? I.e., X will be about £450 a month worse off without additional UC payments and CMS for one of tbe children but will be about £400 a month better off living mortgage free in the new house. Also, they can now apparently get a job.
I don't want to go back to court, it was horrendous, but I don't want to be paying significant sums for my son to an X he won't even stay overnight with - despite my best efforts, but that's another story - and sees no benefit from. Any help, gratefully received.