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What are we each entitled to in our divorce settlement?

What does the law say about how to split the house, how to share pensions and other assets, and how much maintenance is payable.

What steps can we take to reach a fair agreement?

The four basic steps to reaching an agreement on divorce finances are: disclosure, getting advice, negotiating and implementing a Consent Order.

What is a Consent Order and why do we need one?

A Consent Order is a legally binding document that finalises a divorcing couple's agreement on property, pensions and other assets.

 

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18 May 24 #523093 by hadenoughnow
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This is a good idea in principle.

Do you have children? If yes and your ex needs a greater share of liquid capital to house them then I can't see how it would be accepted though.

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18 May 24 #523098 by Endurance
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Yes, we do have children. Just to clarify the scenario:

1. Ex will get all the capital from the marital home to rehouse. This will buy a smaller house outright.

2. I get the investments and savings for a deposit and I have to maximise my mortgage capacity.

3. Inaccessible assets such as pension, vesting shares and property interests are still on the table.

Currently the liquid assets are split 80/20 in my ex's favour.

If the vesting shares are added to my side of the balance sheet and I trade a chunk of my pension then I take a huge risk and she does not. She is guaranteed the funds and mine are subject to all sorts of variables.

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18 May 24 #523099 by Endurance
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Yes, we do have children. Just to clarify the scenario:

1. Ex will get all the capital from the marital home to rehouse. This will buy a smaller house outright.

2. I get the investments and savings for a deposit and I have to maximise my mortgage capacity.

3. Inaccessible assets such as pension, vesting shares and property interests are still on the table.

Currently the liquid assets are split 80/20 in my ex's favour.

If the vesting shares are added to my side of the balance sheet and I trade a chunk of my pension then I take a huge risk and she does not. She is guaranteed the funds and mine are subject to all sorts of variables.

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