Hi
Sorry this is long....
I have just received a letter from my solicitor to say that the court "omitted" to send the co respondent in the
divorce petition any divorce papers at all - so my stbx returned his Acknowledgement of Service months ago, I have been to the court to swear my affidavit (at the beginning of March), and was just waiting for
Decree Nisi date to come through and now told the divorce cannot proceed because of this mistake. The court is sending the paperwork to the co respondent, but I have been told that I will have to go back to court after this has been done to swear a new affidavit and that the divorce hasn't really got anywhere in all these months because of this mistake. I am vey upset as it is holding up all the financial issues and things are getting very very difficult for me and the children - stbx won't do anything now, and is blaming me and my "useless solicitor" for all this mistake.
I rang my solicitor to find out if the court would look at the case sooner (instead of another 3 month wait once they have all the paperwork), they said no there was nothing they could do, they also said that they should have picked this up but they didn't(that the co respondent papers hadn't been served).
As I first contacted the solicitors nearly a year ago, the only thing that has been done is the divorce petition has been put to the court - my stbx and I are able to discuss things (just), but because there are a lot of financial assets /pension etc I didn't feel I wanted to do a diy divorce. As i'm not working I got first level legal aid, my solicitor has said they have applied for 2nd level (to enable them to help me at court). However they have refused to do any further work (no phone calls/letters etc) until the lsc approve the next lot of funding - and i've been waiting nearly 6 months for this to come through. I feel that the solicitor hasn't been very helpful, my stbx keeps asking me when things will get sorted out. I'm not sure whether I should look for a new solicitor as I get legal help (or should do). I just feel as if the court/solicitor can make mistakes and i'm stuck with the consequences and I haven't done anything wrong. My stbx and I are sorting out the finances, we've been to
mediation - my solicitor refused to discuss figures/paperwork etc from the mediation due to the lsc funding not being agreed for the next part - it is making things very difficult - I feel like i'm not really represented by my solicitor, and that as there are assets that I will be repaying the legal help once settlement is sorted out but I won't have got any advice.
I'm at my wits end trying to sort all this out, as well as the benefits agency and children etc.
Any advice on what I should do would be really welcomed.
Sorry for the long post, Kind regards
Choccy x