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What does the law say about how to split the house, how to share pensions and other assets, and how much maintenance is payable.
The four basic steps to reaching an agreement on divorce finances are: disclosure, getting advice, negotiating and implementing a Consent Order.
A Consent Order is a legally binding document that finalises a divorcing couple's agreement on property, pensions and other assets.
Too many people have this experience, and blow their money early on in the case paying solicitors to do the basic steps that you can do yourself. Try to read up as much as you can and work out which elements you can do your self and where you need expert legal help.I've had free advice. It's often a way of them getting you onto their books. Then you're charged at £200 per hour plus vat.
A year on; at a first meeting in Court; I am without legal help because I can no longer afford it.
Depending on your circumstances and your case then it MAY be wise to be represented by a barrister - it isnt essential. I'd rather spend a couple grand on a barrister to get a result at the Final Hearing than on a solicitor to send pointless emails back and forth.The judge tells me that my solicitor can't advise, and suggests I need a barrister.
This is a sad reflection of the state of the system as it implies that there is no consistency in judges rulings across the country. Basically the judge seems to be saying that because he has huge freedom to interpret the law as he likes, that you better have one of his mates handsomely paid to put your case. Judges shouldn't be allowed to say this.Then he suggests I need a barrister that knows him, his rulings, his Court and the way he may make a desicion.
If you realise early on in your case that your ex will DEFINITELY not negotiate. Then you know you are headed for a final hearing. Once I realised this i decided to not pay a penny more towards what had become a pointless legal game with no winners - so i self repped the rest of the way...if your ex doesn't comply your stuffed!
Which is quite understandable.often people are very disolussioned by advice they've been given; and very upset by the vast sums of money charged.
Our consultant service offers expert advice and support to help you reach agreement on a fair financial settlement quickly, and for less than a quarter of the cost of using a traditional high street solicitor.
Helping you negotiate a fair financial settlement with your spouse (or their solicitor) without going to court.
Financial mediation is a convenient and inexpensive way to agree on a fair financial settlement.
This legally binding agreement defines how assets (e.g. properties and pensions) are to be divided.
Support for people who have to go to court to get a fair divorce financial settlement without a solicitor.