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19 May 23 #521067 by Klopp418
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Hi all,

Quick question if I May over a situation my friend is experiencing:-

She is married, has a 8 year old boy with her husband. They are separating and discussing finances. Her husband earns more than her and is suggesting that she move out and split everything 50%. He is also suggesting that with immediate effect she should pay 50% of the household bills/expenses until the divorce is finalised however clearly her monthly earnings make this impossible. I also do not believe she should be asked to leave the family home with her 8 year old son.

In summary:-

1) being asked to leave the family home with an 8 year old ?

2) being asked to contribute 50% towards household bills until divorce is finalised?

Any help would be amazing here!

Thank you!

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19 May 23 #521068 by Rickoshea
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Speak to a Solicitor in the first instance. Yes it costs a bit money but a lot more is at stake and seemingly in the short term.

No she shouldn't move out will be the first advice unless she has a fear for her safety in which case then contact the relevant charities and services so she can get the support she needs

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21 May 23 #521074 by hadenoughnow
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It would be a good idea to direct her to this site so she can seek her own advice and perhaps share a little more detail.
She could also access the free help available on the phone and perhaps consider a fixed price legal financial consulation (see services).
As there is a child to consider their needs will be a priority. If she cannot afford to split bills etc equally, she would not be expected to. He isn't paying child maintenance is he?
She certainly should not move out unless there is a clear risk to her safety

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