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Access to FMHome by wife whos left??
22 Aug 07 #2278 by Sera
Reply from Sera
Re: the kids, they're old enough to deal directly with their mother.
Re: Her access? We're each told what we want to hear when we pay solicitors!
My ex has been told that he can't change the locks, I still live in matrimonial home!
His solicitor has 'requested' that I leave. Doh!
His solicitor suggests a big judge will huff and puff and blow me away. (Erm - nope).
Apparently, it is BOTH yours and her MH, and if she has 'abandoned' it - then maybe (as Scottishlady says) it may be a different situation.
It's very hard to get a 'Conduct order' (apparently), so sadly you may not have much choice. It would be really nice if she was polite enough to at least inform you when she visits.
I think you'll have to now just reverse your train of thought, treat it like she still lives there, but welcome the time when she's not there!
Re: Her access? We're each told what we want to hear when we pay solicitors!
My ex has been told that he can't change the locks, I still live in matrimonial home!
His solicitor has 'requested' that I leave. Doh!
His solicitor suggests a big judge will huff and puff and blow me away. (Erm - nope).
Apparently, it is BOTH yours and her MH, and if she has 'abandoned' it - then maybe (as Scottishlady says) it may be a different situation.
It's very hard to get a 'Conduct order' (apparently), so sadly you may not have much choice. It would be really nice if she was polite enough to at least inform you when she visits.
I think you'll have to now just reverse your train of thought, treat it like she still lives there, but welcome the time when she's not there!
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