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Son had packed in Uni now wants to return.

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19 Oct 13 #410709 by Gillian48
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I would seek legal advice if I were you - the wording does state full time education - best see how a solicitor interprets it? Why not give some money to your son direct - tell him what you''re doing then if he wishes to pay his mother ''rent'' or whatever he can?
Just my opinion but please let us all know how it ends it will be of interest to many I think,

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19 Oct 13 #410712 by Shiver Metimbers
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hawaythelads wrote:

How many more years of University?
Just weighing up cost of paying aginst hassle of court.

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10 months, £2,500 if he don''t fro out again.

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19 Oct 13 #410715 by Shiver Metimbers
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She is now saying that her Solicitor is making an application to the court to have the money taken from my pay. How does that work then, surely I would have a chance to defend myself against this?

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19 Oct 13 #410716 by Gillian48
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I would seek legal advice on the clarification of the wording of the order - she''s maybe just making threats? I wouldn''t think that she could just do this without the court hearing your side of the story,? But I''m not legally trained hopefully the wise wikis will help you more - but if I was you I would seek some advice - some solicitor will give a free hours consultation but maybe depends where you live?

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19 Oct 13 #410717 by Shiver Metimbers
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I would seek legal advice on the clarification of the wording of the order - she''s maybe just making threats? I wouldn''t think that she could just do this without the court hearing your side of the story,? But I''m not legally trained hopefully the wise wikis will help you more - but if I was you I would seek some advice - some solicitor will give a free hours consultation but maybe depends where you live?


I have an appointment on Thursday with a different Solicitor from my original. I have used this one before for a different issue and have used up my free hour of consultation.

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19 Oct 13 #410720 by hawaythelads
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Solicitor hourly rate £180 +vat per hour

£2500/£216 per hour = 12 hours and you''ve done your dough.

Tell your son you''d best stop fecking around at this son and get this fecking course finished no more breaks coz you''re causing me grief with your mother.

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19 Oct 13 #410721 by CakesandFlowers
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