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29 Nov 07 #8130 by Angel557
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I have the children he only wanted part time contact , and made sure that was rubber stamped, now he does'nt bother with the children once again.G/f and her kids are the priority, some things never change, our children and me never came first at any point in our married life.

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29 Nov 07 #8137 by Monitor441
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I share care 50/50 with ex wife 2b on a week on week off basis.

Children are number one priority for me so when we decided to separate I said I didn't want to be a part time dad and 12 months on it is working very well

Mon

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30 Nov 07 #8173 by loobyloo
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Soulmark
there is good and bad in everything, but presence for your children is important even if only on the phone
its hard to sit back and watch the bad parent sail on through life but thats life ive come to conclude
looby

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30 Nov 07 #8186 by madaboutcars
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My little one is only 3 and lives a mile away from me and i only get to see her once a fortnight and for a hour on Wednesdays and every other Monday. Whereas my partner(tjayne) lets her x2b see their children every weekend and he is having them over Xmas and he lives 100 miles away.
Unfortunelty with my x2b, its all about power. I had to go to court to get this access and what makes it more ridiculous, is that when we seperated, i saw my daughter every night but once i found out about her affair, she stopped all contact :unsure:Work that one out???

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30 Nov 07 #8187 by Pickle
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@madaboutcars - Sadly this story sounds all to familiar :(

It probably rings a bell with a lot of people on here.

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30 Nov 07 #8190 by Camberwick green
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Its always about power Madabout! :(

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