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07 Mar 14 #424996 by NL_sadincheshire
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MsnotMrs and Justlost
tell you what though ladies, i did think too that giving up the fight (after 2 years) and ''letting'' him have the lion''s share of the assets (63%) would mean he woud become human again (eventhough like you he is the one who cheated on me and treated me and called me a sub-human)
Nope ladies!
they do not let off even if they hav won'', they just want to see you crumble entirely.. i am stillchased by my ex... so what i am trying to say is do fight on for what is fair because either way they will carry on being unreasonable (if my x is anything to go by :-(

some days are rubbish.. trust me i totally get that.. i am there today myself... can''t stop crying... the saddness is immense
but i hope...still i hope... tomorrow must be better
has to be
xxxx

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08 Mar 14 #425024 by MsnotMrs
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So totally get your days of tears they overcome you don''t they also when you think your doing ok. Bang.... Something the kids repeat or your told by someone who really should mind their own business sends you plummeting into a dark place of pain tears and complete fear of the unknown.

Fighting for what I would hope a court would hear as him doing wrong doesn''t always go in favour, there not interested in the hurt or pain caused just facts.

I cry constantly I don''t sleep much and I''m half the woman I use to be giving up seems the easiest most sane option yet ill always wonder what if I guess.......

We will gain strength once more and move forwards with ease not tears

Nite xx

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23 Mar 14 #427067 by Faithope
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Did you ever find the person that gave up and ran to peace and happiness?

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