Hi,
Im new to this forum, but i''m hoping that someone can confirm my thinking.....
My Ex and i started our divorce in January/ february 2012 and she was extremely keen to move out and pursue another relationship.
We have 2 children and 2 houses, one in my name and one in joint names. Upon separation it was agreed that my Ex would move out of the
marital home and move into our other house as we had only just moved into the marital home a few months before (from the other house) so it would be a good transition for the children
At the date of separation, we valued all of the assets (both houses) and all of the debt and it worked out that we actually owed way more than we had in assets... circa 25k less ...Not great.
i have the kids at least 50% of the time if not more so it was agreed that i would take on all the joint debts (over a 20 year period) in lieu of any future claims against both properties, and i would provide the house (non matrimonial) for her and the children rent and cost free until the youngest child reaches 18. plus of course pay half of any child related expenses
As we were both really clear about the settlement and we were amicable, we decided to do an online service which was actually really good. Additionally, we agreed to a
Consent Order (
Clean Break) for the finances.
it was mutually agreed and my ex moved into the other house and i started paying both mortgages, all the debts and having the children half of the week.
Due to some delays and backwards and forwards surrounding the detail, we finally submitted the consent order and
divorce petition in late 2013 which was granted in march 2014 with no issue
Now my ex is taking me to court to get the order "set aside" because she says that the the house value increased between February 2012 and October 2013 and that this was a "material non disclosure"!!!!
I am of course fighting this as assets are valued as of the date of separation (especially in a short 5 year marriage) and my ex was "living the agreement and benefiting from being debt free and living cost free in a 4 bedroom house...
My position is that if a date is mutually agreed (date of separation) and we are living the agreement, this can''t be a "material non disclosure". An order can only be set aside based on very limited circumstances. "material non disclosure is one of them" but it has to be proved that there was a fundamental non disclosure of something that would have made the initial judge rejet the original consent order
Also, my ex knew that property prices were rising as she is letting agent but when we discussed it i pointed out the amount of interest i would have to pay back on nearly 100k over 20 years....!
Any thoughts?
Signed,
Resisting a shafting from Hampshire