Hello ALL!!

Hi all,
Just wanted to introduce myself as joined yesterday and guess Im going to be spending a fair bit of time with you all! Been separated for a couple of months after 15 yr marriage with 14 yr old son..no choice but to move out of MH as STBX must have been having boxing lessons!!
Delightful STBX remembered Valentines Day, bless her, and manipulated filing of divorce papers with court and letter from solicitor citing UB so that they both came through the door on Thursday the 14th!
Maybe sometimes you have to smile, at least I got something other than bills through my door (well my parents door as paying bills for MH to keep son happy means I dont have enough cash for anything else).
Spke to solicitor who told me I didnt need to pay bills but tugging at heart strings..any advice please...STBX has full time reasonable job but her salary will only cover mortgage. Obviously dont want bailiffs taking away my lads assets.

Hello Mr Broke
A man of honnor good for you and top man toboot, i understand that you want the best for your lad and thats only right but you need to make sure that you can continue your help long term so be carefull dont get into debt trying, i have kids and i do my best and a bit more and always will, i do without they dont and im happy with that but dont kill yourself working to do it.
Im glad you still have some sense of hummour as does your wife what a lovely suprise for a special day still think yourself lucky i only got bills delivered to my new hovel sorry home.
Keep up the good work and dont be a stranger
dukey

Hello Mr Broke
A man of honnor good for you and top man toboot, i understand that you want the best for your lad and thats only right but you need to make sure that you can continue your help long term so be carefull dont get into debt trying, i have kids and i do my best and a bit more and always will, i do without they dont and im happy with that but dont kill yourself working to do it.
Im glad you still have some sense of hummour as does your wife what a lovely suprise for a special day still think yourself lucky i only got bills delivered to my new hovel sorry home.
Keep up the good work and dont be a stranger
dukey