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06 May 19 #507444 by daftact91
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hi my ex partner left me over 3 years ago for another man we have 2 children together and when she left while i was at work she took my son and daughter with her i then realised she not been paying some of the bills as she was the 1 who dealt with the bills so as a result of this the council evicted me and also issued her with an eviction notice too.

since my ex partner left 3 years ago and i got evicted she has moved in with the new boyfriend straight away also my children are living with them and she has done nothing but let me see them then stop me seeing them on and off there is no court orders against me we have been sorting everything mutually and over the past 3 years there has been many incidents where my children have been hurt or neglected by there mum each time i have raised concerns to the social services and some times even the police as some of the times she has attacked me in front of our children and caused damage to me whilst trying to deal with these issues i also have been fighting the council as i have been homeless since i got evicted 3 years ago my ex partner also has made the false claim to the council that she is homeless but it is very clear that she isn't she wants a bigger property for her and the new boyfriend and she has recently been granted 1 by the council but they refuse to help me even though she was the only 1 on the tenancy of the property that we was evicted from and i have recently had to call social service due to my ex partners boyfriend hit my 7 year old son last week her boyfriend is known to the social services for 5 separate things that involve touching and abusing children and he is known under 5 different aliases but despite my efforts to protect our children over the past 3 years the social services have not done a thing and meanwhile my ex partner continues to not let me see the children and the concerning behaviour from her and her boyfriend towards the children continues i really need some advice i miss my children really bad i haven't seen them now for 3 months and im worried for there safety i also worry if the concerning behaviour stop and isn't acknowledge and dealt with i will not be able to refrain from keeping my children safe even if it means breaking laws and rules.

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07 May 19 #507452 by rubytuesday
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Welcome to Wikivorce.

Your post is very difficult to read due to the complete lack of punctuation, but I think you are saying that your children are at risk from physical harm from thier mother, and despite informing social services, and the Police, they still remain in thier mother's care? And that your ex is preventing you from spending time with your children? And the concerns that the new partner is a risk to your children?

Are you on all thier birth certificates? This is important, especially if you were never married to your ex. If you are, then you will have Parental Responsibility. If not, then you won't. If you have PR, you could consider making an application to the Court for a Child Arrangements Order so that your children can spend time with you. You would need to consider how that would work, especially if you don't have a permanent home yet. It is worth contacting the children's schools to discuss with them any concerns you have about your children (You can do this with you have PR).

Please do think carefully about taking the law into your own hands - any evasive action should only be done to protect your children and there should never be any violence involved.

It is worth speaking with the safeguarding team again at your local social services. Write down all your concerns beforehand, so you can keep focused on the relevant issues.

If there is no court order in place regarding the children, then there is nothing to prevent you from taking the children into your care while there are investigations into your allegations against the mother and her partner.

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