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Once again....
18 Jun 19 #508155 by Notsealg
Topic started by Notsealg
So here I am again - was her a number of years ago when I first got divorced - have since remarried and now the bombshell has dropped she wants to divorce - only with this marriage there are young children involved 
We have been married and split up previous - but got back together when she found the grass wasnt greener on the other side. Things would be different this time
4 years down the line and the same pattern emerges. But this time it was both our fault initially until the last weeks when it is me that has failed - in her eyes and is very voval in this
She has said she will move out but our financial situation has changed and so i cant afford to pay for everything this time around - so we have to sit it out until either she find a new place or we get released from the mortgage at Christmas and can sell the house
She hasnt worked since the children were born as I had a good job - but as said - things have changed and she has taken a part time job to giver "herself a bit of financial independence" - but now she is saying that I will be liable for spousal maintenance etc etc
Its a total nightmare - adding to whcih she sent me a message this week saying she is going to start dating again
What am I going to do guys?
We have been married and split up previous - but got back together when she found the grass wasnt greener on the other side. Things would be different this time
4 years down the line and the same pattern emerges. But this time it was both our fault initially until the last weeks when it is me that has failed - in her eyes and is very voval in this
She has said she will move out but our financial situation has changed and so i cant afford to pay for everything this time around - so we have to sit it out until either she find a new place or we get released from the mortgage at Christmas and can sell the house
She hasnt worked since the children were born as I had a good job - but as said - things have changed and she has taken a part time job to giver "herself a bit of financial independence" - but now she is saying that I will be liable for spousal maintenance etc etc
Its a total nightmare - adding to whcih she sent me a message this week saying she is going to start dating again
What am I going to do guys?
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