Ok I'll quickly summarise:
Late August Bank Holiday weekend on the Saturday I receive a summons to appear in court in relation to a Contact Order that my stbx has initiated. With it being a Bank Holiday and the court date being 5 days away (Thursday) I only had Tues & Wed to sort out legal representation. I had no idea about LA but mental calcs showed I was around £1000 over the limit. I have no income apart from CTC & CB so my savings have dwindled to the point that I can apply for LA.
Court date 1: interim order made. Date set for 6 weeks to return
Court date 2: stbx refused anything except overnight contact and will not compromise (2 very young kids)
Just after this court date I got legal bill for £600 for work to date.
Court date 3: this week. In advance of this appearance I have had to meet my solicitor to prepare a statement for the court, come back to read & sign it, the stbx was then allowed to respond. All this work has just cost another £600. This week I have to meet the solicitor tomorrow, appear in court on Thursday and then *if* the interim order is made permanent more paperwork to close the case but if a permanent award (or whatever it's called) isn't made then there's no way I can afford to keep being hauled back.
So yes, so far it's cost £1200 to defend the contact order even though the judge said on the first court date that the kids were too young. I know that's maybe too much info but it explains why it has cost so much.
I know I say I'm struggling to put food on the table yet I have savings but I'm in the
marital home until the stbx's rental agreement runs up in January so the savings I have were meant for a deposit to rent a new place and buy a bed & sofa. There's not enough to cover that now so I'm having to scrimp on everything else so when he kicks me out (the house is in his name along with the mortage) I have enough to get a place of my own.
So Charles, you're saying that I can apply even though the solicitor has already been instructed and is working on the case? She mentioned ABWOR last time so not sure what she means. I'll be seeing her tomorrow but wanted my facts before I go in.
Thank you for the responses.