What doesnt kill you makes you stronger!

At the beginning of our jounery in divorce we all feel there is no future for us and all of our jounery are unique.

Alot of you know the type of marriage i left and i honestly thought nothing would ever hurt me again but on June 4th i took a shocking call that my eldest child was in a coma on life support sadly i had to agree to turn the machine off on june 6th.

my ex husband has not shown compassion or even attended the funeral which personally i find shocking but given his past behaviour nothing surprises me anymore

During this year i met a lovely new guy who somehow manages to make me smile especially throughout all this.

Keep faith that everything will be ok in the end because it will and i think im living proof of that.

Hello BC,

Having followed the story of your divorce I am truly shocked and saddened to read about your son. What a terrible blow and then having to make that decision.

Sending warm wishes that you will find the strength to keep going. Thank goodness you have someone who can make you smile again.

Mitchum xx

Cazza,what can I say?

I had noticed you were not around,but I hoped it was because there was a certain someone in your life,and yes I was partly correct.Your tragic news though will more than explain your absence.
There is nothing I can say,except I am so sorry,and also sorry that your Ex did not support you at this sad time....

The resilience of some people never fails to astound me!!!!!

Sending you massive cwtchs hun
Afon Xxx

I really don''t know what to say. This news is deeply shocking and my heart goes out to you.

Take care of yourself and I hope you have people supporting you through this.

LG xXx

Hi blondecazza,

You are an inspiration, you are such a strong woman & mother. No words will express how you must be feeling & your heartbreak in losing your precious child. You have to keep on keeping on. My deepest sympathies BC and in time your memories will see you through. Take one day at a time, you will always have support on Wiki. Such sadness and in a time of real need, shame on your X.

Stay strong BC, take care for now FoS x

Thank you for your kind words.
I have popped on from time to time but yes a lot of my time has been taken up with this and going to London and Wales.
I wanted to let the newbies on here know you can get through anything it''s amazing what strength you find within yourself to do this.x

Dear Caz,

I am deeply saddened to hear of your unimaginable loss of your child. I can not begin to imagine what the last few months must have been like for you and your family.

If there is anything Wikivorce can do, please let us know and we will do our very best to support and help you.

I''m glad you have met someone who makes you smile and looks after you - you deserve only the very best.

Take care

Ruth