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seeking advice on Father's responsibility

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06 Sep 24 #523939 by sandeeppatro
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Dear all

Hope all are well. Earlier I introduced myself in the link : divorce.wikivorce.com/forum-index/introd...d-advice-desperately

Now, I am thinking of asking a question about Father's reponsibility. My younger one just started secondary school now and as I am totally aleniated father with no contacts with both my girls. I wanted to check if I can call council and update her school so that I get all the information about my girl. I actually found out about her secondary school from her primary school's end of year report.

I would really appreciate if anyone can give any advise on this.

P.S. The reason, I am not applying for child custody is both my girls are totally aleniated and they dont speak to me even when I see them in common friend's functions or public places. So, I feel no point in applying as I understand I will get only few hours to start with and reast of the 6 days and 20 hrs, they will be with their mother and they may get further poisoned. Hence, I left them in their state.

I really seek some suggestion on what action I should take or just keep quiet and wait for some divine intervention.

Actually, I am confused and not sure if am doing right or wrong.

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06 Sep 24 #523942 by Rickoshea
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If you still hold parental responsibility i.e. there has been no court order etc., then the school should have no right to not register your details so you can be informed

Whilst this is for Southampton Council it's got some useful information about the expectation on the school and how they prove/dispute it

www.southampton.gov.uk/media/y0emjrqi/pr...ance-for-schools.pdf

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06 Sep 24 #523943 by sandeeppatro
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Thank you so much for your response @Rickoshea.. really appreciate it. Will update the council accordingly then.

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06 Sep 24 #523944 by rubytuesday
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You may find these letter templates useful for when you contact the school to make sure your details are on your child's school record:

divorce.wikivorce.com/guides-children/le...ild-s-schooling.html

divorce.wikivorce.com/guides-children/le...cy-contact-list.html

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06 Sep 24 #523945 by sandeeppatro
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Thank you so much for your response, really appreciate it.

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