Boyfriend shows true colours

Boyfriend finally gone after months of sulks and things ''he didn''t like'' turned up last night full of drink trying to convince me I''d done the wrong thing, put foot in door not letting me go in, finally accepted I wasn''t changing my mind he got nasty threatening to ''have'' my brother so glad I stuck to my guns I nearly fell for the flannel. Had texts today saying his taking the garden table and chairs and that he''s got someone to come and dismantle and take decking that he built. Do I let it go to get him out my life or refuse entry to my garden which may antagonise him more? I sure do choose em

Leave the garden chairs and table out on the pavement for him to collect. If he paid for them that is and if he is petty enough to be bothered. He has no right to enter your garden. Decking was not fitted with a money back guarantee if the relationship didnt work out, he is being childish.

I guarantee if you allow him to bully you, it will be the decking and something else next week. It''s not about the decking, he is just trying to hurt you. Secure your garden and inform him he is not to enter your property, the garden furniture is on the pavement for collection.

Leave it there. Don''t respond to anything else.