she's moving my children

hi thank you for your help earlier

my ex is moving to birmingham with my 3 kids aged 2,3 and 4 years old i currently live about 30 miles away from them and have no contact with my kids as she stopped me from seeing them when she got a new boyfriend and as a result of that i went round as she changed her number to ask her why but she didn't come out the ouse she just rang the police and said i do it everytime im drunk even though the police stated i didnt even smell of alcohol she still got a harrassment order against me she wont even let me speak to my chilren on the phone not even on Christmas day she moved just before Christmas so i didnt know where my children were but i found out and sent xmas cards now she knows that i know where my children are she is moving them to birminghan over 100 miles away so is there any possible way i could stop here moving my children so far away from me even though i dont see them (thats hard enough) it would kill me knowin they are so far away

thanks Craig

Hi Sweetie,

Can you fill in a bit more detail hun, and then we can look at your prospects of sucess as well as me telling you how to apply.

When did you split?
What was your contact?
When did it stop?
Why did it stop?
Why is she so determined to make sure you dont see them?

Give us more details hunny and we can help you as much as we can.

Amanda

well we split up in 2006 and i was seeing my children on a weekly basis untill she got a new boyfriend then she just stopped me from having any contact whatsoever with no real reason she just said she wants to move on with her life and for me to do the same but how can i without my children and i only went to her house to see why she stopped me but she just rang the police with no real reason and the had a harrassment order against me preventing me from contacting her so i cant even just turn up to see them i am on my two youngest childrens b'certificates but not my eldest childs i just cant lay down and let her take my children so far away

Hi hun

Were you not married? How long is it since you have had contact with the kids?

Re the Harrassment - do you mean a harrassment warning, a non molestation order or a restraining order?

Amanda

yes a harrassment warning sorry and it has been about 2 months since i last seen them but that wasn't with her cosent she let my mum have my eldest and my yougest for a couple of days so i went round to see them and she found out and come up for them and took them home for no apparent reason only that she didn't want me to have any contact with them now my mother not even allowed to see them

Craig,unfortunatly you have to go to the courts in your situation asap.Face that.Its not an easy process but the sooner you do so the better.30 miles....thats only about 45mins on the bus...nothing.You have the belief you are being wronged but more importantly your children are.You will endure and prevail because of this.
If you drive it would be no problem but as you may not....dont worry as most men have to travel too.Perhaps you are being shoved out of your own comfort zone and that is the real problem realy!It will all be ok.but you do need your rights and the childrens rights enforced.

sorry craig,I see you say 100miles moving to and 30 currently.100 miles even is not far at all even....only 70 more than you go now.It will be ok.Accept that change embrace it.Even move there yourself if you can....now theres a thought eh!!