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Court preparation 1953 topics

Discussion about preparing for court hearings, whether it is related to the Divorce Petition, Ancillary Relief or Child Contact/Residency.
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Documents
Hi
Finally got a court date for my first hearing

I am already confused -so would appreciate some guidance
1= I send the notice of response to t ...
24 Sep 19, by fresh start
Latest 05 Oct 19 by fresh start
Replies:4
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Latest by fresh start
05 Oct 19
FDR this Friday, what happens in court? Panicking
Hello all,
I have my first FDR hearing on Friday, I am the respondant, self repping due to cost.
He has a solicitor, I've done my best with the paperwor ...
01 Jan 19, by dibble35
Latest 08 Sep 19 by Marty2004
Replies:17
:2958
Latest by Marty2004
08 Sep 19
Direct Access Barristers
Hi
Has anyone used a Direct Access Barrister? if so, what questions should I ask, what are the charges? and how do I know if they are good ... any advice wo ...
06 Sep 19, by Moto12
Latest 06 Sep 19 by Under60
Replies:1
:876
Latest by Under60
06 Sep 19
Value of the Chronology for FDR & Final Hearing
I'm the respondent representing myself with an FDR next week. A few questions/ queries which might seem simple!

The 'A' solicitor has prepared a very b ...
08 Aug 19, by Rudderless
Latest 19 Aug 19 by Rudderless
Replies:3
:1101
Latest by Rudderless
19 Aug 19
Defended Divorce
Hi all, really need advice my ex has defended our divorce no idea why as we have not spoken in a year neither have we tried to mend I listed 6 unreasonable beha ...
31 Jul 19, by Salu1982
Latest 07 Aug 19 by Salu1982
Replies:7
:1500
Latest by Salu1982
07 Aug 19
All last minute FDHR this week
My children's father has submitted a C1a and C100 and I am due to attend an FHDR this week. He wants the court to decide on secondary schooling for the childre ...
28 Jul 19, by nearlythere123
Latest 02 Aug 19 by Allcry
Replies:1
:695
Latest by Allcry
02 Aug 19
barrister
At a final hearing is it better to go directly to instruct a barrister or should i go through a family solicitor firm ?
how do you actually pay fr these ser ...
24 Jul 19, by dezpemberton
Latest 24 Jul 19 by .Charles
Replies:2
:617
Latest by .Charles
24 Jul 19
final hearing
can anybody give an idea what a final hearing like and what it entails and whether or not i am likely to get a court date this year as the FDR was in April do i ...
18 Jun 19, by dezpemberton
Latest 09 Jul 19 by Carlsberg71
Replies:8
:1990
Latest by Carlsberg71
09 Jul 19
court hearing as respondent objecting to divorce c
I have to attend court regarding divorce costs, would I be allowed to send an email to the courts putting my side of events on why I feel they are astronomicall ...
12 Jun 19, by pepsimax
Latest 13 Jun 19 by Marty2004
Replies:5
:679
Latest by Marty2004
13 Jun 19
Help !!! ExFailed to exchange Form E prior to FDA
Please can someone give me guidance.

I submitted my Form E to the court on 5th June 2019 and have held back the copy to my former spouses solicitor as ...
11 Jun 19, by Klou72
Latest 13 Jun 19 by hadenoughnow
Replies:5
:805
Latest by hadenoughnow
13 Jun 19
Position Statement and Case Summary
Hi,

I have my final hearing next Friday and am trying to finish the bundle, litigant in person. I''m hoping someone can help with some advice as I''m c ...
31 May 16, by vix535
Latest 11 Jun 19 by rubytuesday
Replies:9
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Latest by rubytuesday
11 Jun 19
Final hearing papers
Hi all
Have trial bundle,case summary, etc to do for final hearing, no solicitor need some help with all of it and or examples of layout etc, and correct fo ...
10 Jun 19, by Betsy1
Replies:0
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Dealing with a stupid Spouse
Hi All,

I currently going through a divorce where my ex has decided to sell his car (a few years old), however has not put the proceeds of that car int ...
03 Jun 19, by Geeky
Latest 03 Jun 19 by Marty2004
Replies:3
:588
Latest by Marty2004
03 Jun 19
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16 May 19, by HappyOneDay
Latest 03 Jun 19 by HappyOneDay
Replies:1
:548
Latest by HappyOneDay
03 Jun 19
Domestic abuse / prenuptial agreement
Hi,
Could anyone advise if domestic abuse affects a prenuptial agreement? ...
02 Jun 19, by emma1010
Latest 02 Jun 19 by Mitchum
Replies:1
:540
Latest by Mitchum
02 Jun 19
Should Form E be emailed or posted
Hi,

I am self representing and the paperwork from the court states to email correspondence to their email address, however I am due to send the Form E ...
30 May 19, by Klou72
Latest 30 May 19 by Klou72
Replies:2
:562
Latest by Klou72
30 May 19
Form A
My husband has applied to court for clean break financial settlement. (Quite unnecessary in my opinion as our finances are relatively simple - but I digress).
16 May 19, by Tearead
Latest 17 May 19 by Tearead
Replies:2
:704
Latest by Tearead
17 May 19
Final Trial Preparation Documentation
UK Question:- Sorry for long post! After 7 years separation and 2 previous court hearings I will soon be divorced after an upcoming Trial on 15th May ... last w ...
10 Apr 19, by cat147@hotmail.com
Latest 02 May 19 by Rachel Munro
Replies:1
:590
Latest by Rachel Munro
02 May 19
South African divorce law in the UK
Can the UK courts apply South African divorce law when a couple was married in South Africa and getting divorced in the UK? ...
14 Nov 12, by Beatie
Latest 03 Apr 19 by Puff1n
Replies:5
:4818
Latest by Puff1n
03 Apr 19
defended divorce but no defences lodged
Hi separated for 9 years now husband had an affair and left struggling to get a divorce as he ignores letters .
anyway court date is now set 18 april he had ...
31 Mar 19, by posh2306
Latest 02 Apr 19 by posh2306
Replies:2
:494
Latest by posh2306
02 Apr 19
Response to disinformation in Position Statement
Hi, has anybody had any experience with this: I've received my ex H's Position Statement before the FDR hearing and there are quite a few untrue statements. Can ...
15 Mar 19, by Lin325
Latest 16 Mar 19 by Lin325
Replies:4
:504
Latest by Lin325
16 Mar 19
Do I submit E2 ahead of variation 1st hearing?
Hi, I've applied to the court to terminate a global maintenance order on the basis that my ex has remarried.

I've received a date for the hearing, but ...
05 Mar 19, by jandle
Latest 11 Mar 19 by alreid1612
Replies:2
:597
Latest by alreid1612
11 Mar 19
Basic ques relating to form A
Hi,

So just starting out self representing after having spent every penny trying to sort it every other way. I'm feeling a bit overwhelmed and have wha ...
06 Mar 19, by Overtherainbow
Latest 06 Mar 19 by hadenoughnow
Replies:1
:482
Latest by hadenoughnow
06 Mar 19
Should I use pension actuary?
Hi I am in mid proceedings. Married 2006, separated 2 years ago in 2016.

Difficulty with finances. He remains in fmh and wishes to buy me out but I thi ...
13 Aug 18, by Judith68
Latest 02 Mar 19 by waynekerr
Replies:1
:618
Latest by waynekerr
02 Mar 19
Do I need a skeleton?
I've got a final hearing on children matters coming up, a one day affair in front of magistrates. We've done lengthy witness statements and CAFCASS have done a ...
05 Feb 19, by s59
Latest 22 Feb 19 by s59
Replies:3
:605
Latest by s59
22 Feb 19
FM1 query
I have petitioned the divorce and have the nisi and we were attending mediation for children & finance. We couldn’t agree re children and ex husband said ...
10 Feb 19, by Fajita
Latest 13 Feb 19 by rubytuesday
Replies:1
:721
Latest by rubytuesday
13 Feb 19
Section 25 statement - net debts
Ive got a final hearing coming up and am representing myself. We have net debts and my EX does not want to recognise these, but requests that family home be sol ...
02 Feb 19, by frederique
Latest 04 Feb 19 by Allan Hogg
Replies:1
:544
Latest by Allan Hogg
04 Feb 19
The date the court use to assess financial positio
Can anyone help tell me at what point does the court use to assess the monies each party hold?

Is it the day of separation?
The date of Form E?
...
07 Jan 19, by Thomasjames
Latest 08 Jan 19 by TRT
Replies:1
:467
Latest by TRT
08 Jan 19
Deemed Service Divorce
I suspect that divorce papers will not be signed by the Respondent. Can anyone advise how long the court wait before we would need to arrange a bailiff to serv ...
28 Dec 18, by Pianogirl
Latest 28 Dec 18 by .Charles
Replies:1
:733
Latest by .Charles
28 Dec 18
Unreasonable Behaviour Wording
I am currently getting my divorce application ready to send to court. I would be very grateful for opinions on what I have listed as unreasonable behaviour. ie ...
20 Dec 18, by Pianogirl
Latest 20 Dec 18 by Pianogirl
Replies:2
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Latest by Pianogirl
20 Dec 18
Second Witness Stmt w/ nothing to respond against!
Hi All,

I filed my witness statement on time (as always) as requested by the directions order. My ex was supposed to file their statement two weeks lat ...
16 Dec 18, by s59
Latest 16 Dec 18 by s59
Replies:1
:473
Latest by s59
16 Dec 18
Application for Decree Nisi, form D80d
Im completing form D80d (2 years consent). Does the date in Q5 need to be at least 2 years later than the date given in Q4 to ensure we qualify on these grounds ...
14 Dec 18, by Simon52
Replies:0
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Can non-resident b served w UK divorce application
If the ex owns property in the UK, and is a UK citizen, can a divorce application be served to them if they are residing in the US for a job? ...
03 Dec 18, by HappyOneDay
Latest 05 Dec 18 by HappyOneDay
Replies:3
:494
Latest by HappyOneDay
05 Dec 18
Photographs in the witness statement?
Hi All,

In previous hearings I have taken along a couple of photos or an A4 sheet with a few pictures of my child. I was thinking this time of exhibiti ...
19 Nov 18, by s59
Latest 19 Nov 18 by s59
Replies:2
:1747
Latest by s59
19 Nov 18
Final hearing requesting up to date evidence
Hi,

I am looking for some guidance on what I can request a court to order.

We originally started a divorce proceedings over 2 years ago.
< ...
09 Nov 18, by Stacey198
Latest 11 Nov 18 by jennyjay@hotmail.com
Replies:1
:567
Latest by jennyjay@hotmail.com
11 Nov 18
Final Hearing next week, advice appreciated
Hi, have just been preparing my s25 statement and contacted ex solicitor (who is the Applicant) asking for his s25. Solicitor then advises me that this has alre ...
02 Oct 18, by brighid
Replies:0
:474

Preparing for FDR Hearing
I am a LIP and the respondent in the matter.

I was using a solicitor but I had to stop because the costs spiralled out of control.

The applica ...
02 Sep 18, by Ineedsomeguidance
Replies:0
:640

S25 statement help
Hi everyone,

I have been loitering here for a while whilst going through a relentless and awful divorce (narcissistic ex) that is galloping towards a f ...
29 Aug 18, by * Tilly *
Latest 29 Aug 18 by .Sylvia
Replies:2
:1160
Latest by .Sylvia
29 Aug 18
Questions Re Respondents E.Form
Hi

Asking on behalf of friend who is self repping.

Friend has recived Respondents E Form. Respondent confirms he is co-habiting and will cont ...
04 Aug 18, by Pepsi64
Latest 05 Aug 18 by Pepsi64
Replies:4
:724
Latest by Pepsi64
05 Aug 18
Quickie - referring to magistrates in statements?
Hello All, how should one refer to magistrates when writing position statements? Justices? Magistrates? Eg: "When challenged by the Justices to offer the F ...
20 Jul 18, by s59
Latest 23 Jul 18 by s59
Replies:2
:486
Latest by s59
23 Jul 18

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