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Nice Unreasonable Behaviour

gettingadjusted
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11 Nov 08 #64448 by gettingadjusted

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Hi All

Ok so started to complete the divorce papers and have got to the section of the reason. I could file for adultery (although proof is a little hard to come by) and anyway I agreed with her not to file for this reason and so therefore I am having to go down the unreasonable behaviour ( I dont see the point of waiting two years) route. I dont want things to get nasty so want to come up with something that will not cause too much offense (heh we both know what happened the kids will make up their own mind one day).

I want to basically say that I moved out of the FMH in November 2007 (to live with my parents before anyone says anything) that she moved out in Feb 2008 and since then has been living with xxxxxx (I won't name the person here or in the divorce petition) and that they have continued to live there.

Any ideas on a nice and legal way of wording this that would meet the unreasonable behaviour criteria?

Thanks in advance

D L
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11 Nov 08 #64453 by D L

Reply from D L

Hi there

All you need to put is:

The respodent has been having an inappropriate assosication with an un-named male and left the former matrimonial home in February 2008 to cohabit with this man.

Accordingly the petitioner fnds it unreasonable to live with the respondent and considers the marriage has broken down irritrievably.

(BTW - I know you dont live with her, but you have to have that line in).

Amanda

gettingadjusted
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11 Nov 08 #64455 by gettingadjusted

Reply from gettingadjusted

Amanda - As ever thank you!!!!

You are a knight in shining armour (or what ever a female one is)

hawaythelads
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11 Nov 08 #64477 by hawaythelads

Reply from hawaythelads

She's a damsel in a sparkly chastity belt!If we're getting all medieval.
Either that or an old Dragon!LEGGIT!

D L
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11 Nov 08 #64486 by D L

Reply from D L

I am sooooooooooo gonna get you Haway!

CyclingFanatic
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15 Nov 08 #65388 by CyclingFanatic

Reply from CyclingFanatic

Thanks for the great question and responses everyone!

Fluffy10
Junior Member

24 Nov 08 #67835 by Fluffy10

Reply from Fluffy10

The replies would suggest you are divorcing on Adultery then.....I got divorced from my first husband many years ago and as he wouldn't agree to adultery had to go down the unreasonable behaviour route. I tried to do the divorce myself and tried to put down nice unreasonable behaviour and it was just thrown out of court. Ended up having to go to a solicitor and the unreasonable behaviour has to be pretty bad e.g. mental abuse or physical abuse, alcoholism and there needs to be a mixture of things not just one.

I think by far the easier route is adultery.

Hope this helps.

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