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Nice Unreasonable Behaviour

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24 Nov 08 #67856 by Elle
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Isnt the easiest route time of separation....no naming/shamtng...and reduced "sentence" with recent law?

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24 Nov 08 #67859 by Ephelia
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Possibly but with this you have to wait two years and you can't sort the finances out until you petition for divorce - so until you do you're in financial limbo....

Great if everyone co-operates and is reasonable but if not...

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24 Nov 08 #67860 by perrypower
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Well, I had no problem getting Decress Nisi (Oct 08) with unreasonable behaviour route on the basis of inappropriate relationship and that she was nasty at times. Just two things and was told that I could have got it with just the inappropriate relationship.

A judge knows exactly what it means, so it is only if the other party contests that it should be an issue.

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24 Nov 08 #67865 by kezzarick
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Why is it that people do not want adultery put down as the cause of divorce? Does it make any difference to things.....I can only see it as making things seem more straightforward or am I missing something?

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24 Nov 08 #67885 by dukey
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None of the five reasons have an advantage, its simply many refuse AD petitions.

Uk divorce is no faults, no moral issues are involved in the process, the court establish the marriage has irrevocably brokrn down give you time to sort money out then formally and legaly end the marriage.

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24 Nov 08 #67890 by D L
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Hi all

You do not need to prove physical or mental abuse for UB, nor does it have to "pretty bad". It is common for UB to be mild enough to not be offensive, yet be enough for a judge to declare the marriage has broken down.

You can divorce on UB for an inappropriate relationship alone, not needing to cite any further particulars.

Amanda

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