Still problems with the ex

I''m away next weekend Mrs maths which should of been my exs Weekend with our son so yes it does interfear with plans.i never bad mouth his father despite his bad behaviour.
Marshy my son sees his dad on alt weekends and that''s been in place for a couple of years.
You can''t interfear sadly but every time it''s left to me to pick up the pieces when he let''s him down.
No alternative dates were given and so it means he won''t see his son for nearly a month and at a time of such stress for him can''t be a good thing...but hey Ho I''m sure I''ll pick up the pieces yet again.

Ah read next weekend as being 2/3 and him cancelling 8/9 May. Really annoying when they do that I have learnt to always have a back up plan just in case. Can son come with you or does it mean cancelling your plans?

I would cancel I think maths.He can do what he likes to me I''m not too bothered about that.
It''s the not seeing his son for a month that''s what gets me at a time when he needs both parents around.
I''m pretty sure he''s done that as he knows it would cause problems at a time that''s important to his son...but hey we will get through we have the last 4 years xx

I feel for you Blondecazza, it sucks having to wear the disappointment that your ex just doesn''t get how important their contact with their children is, especially at a time like now.
Ironically mine has just done the same. Should be having them that weekend, just told me a few days ago he will be overseas (he would have known this for months) and has directed his mother to drive 4 hours to come and stay with OW to cover for him, leaving me to do all the negotiations with her around pickups, school sports etc. Of course it happens to be the weekend I am moving!
I know your weekend away wasn''t your main concern but it sounds like you would have been looking forward to a little break (as anyone would) and it must be a pain being let down by his selfishness yet again.