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3 yeas ago today my ex left me

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01 Oct 15 #467508 by AngieP
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LG you have come such a long way and I know how hard you have worked in getting to where you are today and realising your true worth. Wiki has also been a lifesaver for me and friends such as yourself have helped me through the darkest of times. No stopping you now!:)x

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01 Oct 15 #467509 by afonleas
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Lg,how I remember that day,and the visible fear that you suffered.Although you braved that day,and more since then.

One day it does finally get better and all click into place for us.

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01 Oct 15 #467517 by Mitchum
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Littlegreen,

Reading this inspirational post makes your friends proud to know you, and gives hope to the newbies that the pain will eventually subside.

It reminds us that being part of the supportive wiki community brings so many of us through the devastation of divorce.

Wishing you many happy years from here on. xx

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02 Oct 15 #467525 by flowerofscotland
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Hi littlegreen,

As time moves on, we change. I really think in our heart of hearts we will remember the good times as well as the bad, it just takes time. I remember a question on Wiki roughly about my own 3 year mark, asking if we thought time was a healer? I''m personally not sure that it is, as we bear those war wounds, and possibly always will? But, time does allow us all a real pause for reflection and putting things into perspective, taking those rose-tinted specs off!

So glad you are surviving & walking into a new dawn, as the years go by, we don''t always ''look back in anger'', like we may have in the early days.

You have survived littlegreen and lived to tell the tale, like so many of us we never thought we would, you are living proof that there really and truly is and life after divorce!

Take care for now FoS x

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