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24 May 17 #492558 by krazy
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Also, on the up-side, I do get some satisfaction from actually being the person coming out of all this 'on-top'. The ex is living with the 'affair' lady. That lady is older, has a crappy low paid part time job, a terrible, almost non-existant relationship with her own children as a result of the affair, all the hassle of her own divorce to deal with, no money or assets or pension of her own. The affair lady is totally dependent on my ex. In my (granted some what biased opinion 
) a 'down grade' on me and our lives together!
Ha ha! I have our lovely house, my children for more of the time, a nice new very well off fella who's younger, is fully independent, and who has no baggage of crazy ex's or children. I took the chance granted and 'upgraded'!
The ex is not impressed
I do get a kick from it! Don't worry, it not my motivation, but it's a silver lining!
) a 'down grade' on me and our lives together!Ha ha! I have our lovely house, my children for more of the time, a nice new very well off fella who's younger, is fully independent, and who has no baggage of crazy ex's or children. I took the chance granted and 'upgraded'!
The ex is not impressed
I do get a kick from it! Don't worry, it not my motivation, but it's a silver lining!
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