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21 Aug 17 #495693 by Footy1234
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Thanks gor the advice.

The plan gor me moving out is only to take the clothes i meedand come back everyday. Till the house is sold.

The day in the week will change so mot set. I need to keep it amicable for my daughter also my daughter needs a routine for the new school year. Don't want her getting upset

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21 Aug 17 #495694 by crimsonlake
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If everything is so amicable then why not remain in the family home until it is sold? If you are putting your child first they would benefit from this continuity.If things are so amicable why does your wife want you out of the family home so quickly? You need to protect yourself and listen to the advice from the experienced on here.
I fear you are being very naive and trusting,but as has already been suggested you need to seek legal advice as your wife has done.I also am concerned that whatever advice you are given by what you might see as the cynical amongst us you will ignore.You only have to read many of the horror stories on here to discover what started out with promises of being an amicable divorce, ended up in long drawn out horror stories.

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21 Aug 17 #495695 by sunglasses
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I agree Crimsonlake as I was naive at the beginning. Soon learnt you have to be on your guard at all times. Saying that I suppose some people are fortunate to have an amicable divorce. I just found that as soon as the solicitors got involved it became more of a battle but I know solicitors are doing what their client tells them but at the time I believed my ex could do no wrong realise I was a fool to believe that.

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21 Aug 17 #495742 by Footy1234
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My wife has now offered to pay some if the cost of running the house as i am not there all the time.

I will be there ine night in the week adhoc and every second weekend. During these times she will be living with parents.

House went in the market today hoping for a quick sale.

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Thornton1980 wrote:

My wife has now offered to pay some if the cost of running the house as i am not there all the time.

I will be there ine night in the week adhoc and every second weekend. During these times she will be living with parents.

House went in the market today hoping for a quick sale.


Some of the cost?

She should be paying all of the costs if you are not there.

Make sure anything you pay is in lieu of child maintenance. You don't want to fall into the spousal maintenance trap.

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