| Videos - What to Expect at Court Hearings Lucy Reed, a well-known family law barrister has produced these three videos and has kindly consented to us sharing them here. The aim of the videos to demysti ... 25 May 20, by rubytuesday Locked | Replies:0 :1304 | |
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| What is Spousal Maintenance What is it?
The legal term for spousal maintenance is “periodical payments”, which are governed by section 21(1) of the Matrimonial Causes Act, and ... 25 May 20, by rubytuesday Locked | Replies:0 :1615 | |
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| 26 Aug 25, by Newbeginnings2018 Latest 07 Sep 25 by WYSPECIAL | Replies:1 :352 | |
| Pension figures and PCP car liability Could anyone answer a few quick questions please:
We both have defined contribution pensions and have logged into our online accounts to see the pot va ... Latest 05 Sep 25 by WYSPECIAL | Replies:1 :262 | |
| Court settlement I am hoping to 'walk away' from my financial settlement. I can no longer afford my solicitor and my exes solicitor is awful to deal with. I don't understand all ... 30 Aug 25, by charlottefarmers@hotmail.co.uk | Replies:0 :313 | |
| FDR Hi All,
Had an FDR scheduled for the July 2025 then the court cancelled it on the basis that there we not enough judges. Now they have moved the date t ... Latest 28 Aug 25 by .Charles | Replies:1 :268 | |
| Spousal maintenance Hi I got divorced in 2012 after a very acrimonious divorce I was married to a financially controlling person. I was issued a court order for child and spousal m ... | Replies:0 :324 | |
| FCO Hi
At Court the Financial consent order said that my friend's house valued at £491,000 be sold and ex wife awarded £225,000. House placed on market in Jan ...
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| Settlement I married my partner in November 2015 he left 8 months later before the birth of our daughter.I have offered him money over the years but he would not agree. ... Latest 25 Aug 25 by Pippa0987@ | Replies:6 :314 | Latest by Pippa0987@ 25 Aug 25 |
| No clean break Hi All,
Does anyone have experience of what happens in court when an ex partner has been awarded 5 years of spousal maintenance with a possibility of extens ...
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| Will I be worse off? So, I'm thinking of getting a divorce. I've been married to my husband for 14 years and I've had enough! Everything is in his name - I mean, everything ... even ... Latest 20 Aug 25 by Seawychie | Replies:7 :1035 | |
| Failed FDR My divorce proceedings are now entering the 4th year. Every application has gone through the Court. I am the Respondent in all the hearing except the financia ... Latest 20 Aug 25 by DestroyedInDivorce | Replies:20 :2137 | Latest by DestroyedInDivorce 20 Aug 25 |
| CMS/dads behaviour I was never married so don't know if I'm allowed here. I'm desperate for help and don't know what to do. I'll try and be brief but this one's very complexed. I ... Latest 20 Aug 25 by DestroyedInDivorce | Replies:2 :421 | Latest by DestroyedInDivorce 20 Aug 25 |
| Financial Order Variation A financial order was granted in 2019, with a timeframe of 5 years for the property to be sold or for the resident parent to buy out the non-resident parent. 18 Aug 25, by username190925 Latest 20 Aug 25 by DestroyedInDivorce | Replies:1 :54 | Latest by DestroyedInDivorce 20 Aug 25 |
| Variation of Spousal Maintenance H,
Please could anyone help me with this please?
I divorced 13 years ago with a financial consent order in place with spousal mainentance from my ex hus ... Latest 20 Aug 25 by DestroyedInDivorce | Replies:1 :323 | Latest by DestroyedInDivorce 20 Aug 25 |
| Pension Hi ive received the CETV from my husband pension. It matures in 2 years. Am I correct in saying that the closer to maturity the more accurate the CETV is ... | Replies:0 :382 | |
| Bundle for Dispute Resolution Hearing Good morning
Can someone confirm the position for me? When preparing the court bundle with Form Es and other key documents, do all the parties bank sta ... Latest 14 Aug 25 by .Charles | Replies:1 :339 | |
| Consent order Ii am going through divorce proceedings and i have just seen the draft ot the consent order written by my spouses solicitor.
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| I'm confused about everything Sorry if this is in the wrong section.
I feel like I've got so many questions that keep coming into my head, DIY divorce as cant afford a solicitor.< ...
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| Consent order refusal My ex and I both signed a consent order last year so that she could keep the marital home. It's to be transferred into her name soley once she has transferred m ... 14 Apr 25, by Uptotheeyeballs Latest 07 Aug 25 by Uptotheeyeballs | Replies:5 :250 | Latest by Uptotheeyeballs 07 Aug 25 |
| Is this a fair Deal Hi
In the final stages of agreeing a clean break order w my ex.
I will be keeping the majoirty of our shared debt (£14k ish), they'll keep ... Latest 05 Aug 25 by mm1991 | Replies:2 :342 | |
| Will I get anything from a settlement? I have a financial dispute resolution hearing coming up and am representing myself.
My husband and I were together for 13 years but only married for the fin ...
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| Form ES2 I'm a Litigant in Person in what's sadly become an unpleasant divorce.
I don't understand form ES2 there's no prior order in place. How do I compile it? ... Latest 04 Aug 25 by WYSPECIAL | Replies:1 :346 | |
| Issues to be determind Hi,
I'm a Litigant in Person so am compiling the bundle.
I'm working on the chronology and issues to be determined.
I understand how ... Latest 04 Aug 25 by WYSPECIAL | Replies:1 :325 | |
| Question / Advice My friends husband cheated on her using sex workers and porn sites. He has moved out, back with parents but obviously is paying for half bills as his name is st ... Latest 01 Aug 25 by WYSPECIAL | Replies:1 :320 | |
| Travel time as a Litigant in Person? I was a Litigant in Person in a British Overseas Territory. I had to travel there. So I have travel expenses and the travel took, actually, more than 48 hours i ... Latest 29 Jul 25 by .Charles | Replies:1 :291 | |
| Question about d81 form Hello, hope you can help. I'm confused with question 10 on the d81 form (after implementation of consent order). His solicitor has entered a value in my ... | Replies:0 :441 | |
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| D11 I am a foster carer and filling out the D11form
Do I have to put my foster allowance as income? ... Latest 15 Jul 25 by WYSPECIAL | Replies:1 :270 | |
| Financial order Hi, my ex partners solicitor is sending me a financial order to sign, however, this will be arriving after the final order can be made. We've agreed a settlemen ... Latest 12 Jul 25 by Harrysmith | Replies:2 :131 | Latest by Harrysmith 12 Jul 25 |
| Form E and CMS Hi Could anyone advice whether chld maintenance payments should be included in section 2.19 for other income? I have declared this on section 1.13 bu ... | Replies:0 :367 | |
| Pension lump sum I am due to receive my pension with a lump sum and an annual payment . Am i allowed to buy a car with my lump sum ( financial hearing is not until september) ... Latest 03 Jul 25 by WYSPECIAL | Replies:3 :257 | |
| D81 form Good afternoon
I have been separated from my wife since 2016. We have long since financially separated by at least 5 years without any issues. Latest 02 Jul 25 by rubytuesday | Replies:5 :373 | Latest by rubytuesday 02 Jul 25 |
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| Police pension Hi just starting the financial process and have asked husbands pension provider for CETV. They said that my solicitor has to request it. Im not having a sol ... Latest 02 Jul 25 by WYSPECIAL | Replies:1 :263 | |