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What are we each entitled to in our divorce settlement?

What does the law say about how to split the house, how to share pensions and other assets, and how much maintenance is payable.

What steps can we take to reach a fair agreement?

The four basic steps to reaching an agreement on divorce finances are: disclosure, getting advice, negotiating and implementing a Consent Order.

What is a Consent Order and why do we need one?

A Consent Order is a legally binding document that finalises a divorcing couple's agreement on property, pensions and other assets.

 

Financial 30.2k topics

Discuss financial aspects of divorce including ancillary relief, spousal maintenance, child support, property transfer and pension sharing.
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Ancillary Relief 5721 topics

Discuss all aspects of Ancillary Relief: when and how to apply, and the various stages of the court process from disclosure through to a final hearing.
Re: Short Marriage of Few Weeks
by Curious7
Yesterday 14:54

Divorce calculator 1302 topics

Discuss the Wikivorce divorce calculator. What did you think of the estimate it gave? How do you interpret the output? How accurate is the calculator?
Discuss the impact of divorce on property and mortgages. How will the house be divided? Does your ex have to keep up with the mortgage payments?
Re: Divorced but still have joint ...
by WYSPECIAL
05 Sep 25

Maintenance 3329 topics

Discuss child and spousal maintenance. How much child support are you entitled to? What determines whether you will receive/pay spousal maintenance?
Re: Spousal Maintenance
by DestroyedInDivorce
03 Jun 25

Pensions 2382 topics

Discuss divorce related pension issues. Is the CETV valuation valid for final salary schemes? How much is a pension worth when you offset it against the house?
Re: Pension advice in divorce
by WYSPECIAL
05 Aug 25

Debt and Bankruptcy 837 topics

Discuss debt and bankruptcy in divorce. How does it affect the Ancillary Relief settlement if me or my ex go bankrupt or enter an IVA during divorce?

Benefits 456 topics

Discussion on state benefits during and after divorce. What benefits am I entitled to? Will my benefits be affected by the maintenance I receive?
Re: High Income Child Benefit Tax ...
by PortisheadDad
12 May 25

Legal Aid 426 topics

Discuss Legal Aid. Will you qualify? How do you claim? When and how do you pay the money back?
Re: When does it stop
by Djsmith
03 Oct 24
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Videos - What to Expect at Court Hearings
Lucy Reed, a well-known family law barrister has produced these three videos and has kindly consented to us sharing them here. The aim of the videos to demysti ...
25 May 20, by rubytuesday
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What is Spousal Maintenance
What is it?

The legal term for spousal maintenance is “periodical payments”, which are governed by section 21(1) of the Matrimonial Causes Act, and ...
25 May 20, by rubytuesday
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Please Read this BEFORE Posting in the Financial Area of the Forum
If you would like advice from Wikivorce members as to what the likely outcome of a financial case in a divorce or civil partnership dissolution is going to be; ...
25 May 20, by rubytuesday
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Remortgaging and splitting the cost of the existing mortgage on the property
Hello, I have to sell the family home soon due to the financial consent order. I am looking to see if I can remortgage to buy out my ex husband. The equity spli ...
26 Aug 25, by Newbeginnings2018
Latest 07 Sep 25 by WYSPECIAL
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07 Sep 25
Pension figures and PCP car liability
Could anyone answer a few quick questions please:

We both have defined contribution pensions and have logged into our online accounts to see the pot va ...
31 Aug 25, by KW25
Latest 05 Sep 25 by WYSPECIAL
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05 Sep 25
Court settlement
I am hoping to 'walk away' from my financial settlement. I can no longer afford my solicitor and my exes solicitor is awful to deal with. I don't understand all ...
30 Aug 25, by charlottefarmers@hotmail.co.uk
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FDR
Hi All,

Had an FDR scheduled for the July 2025 then the court cancelled it on the basis that there we not enough judges. Now they have moved the date t ...
27 Aug 25, by Ash2025
Latest 28 Aug 25 by .Charles
Replies:1
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Latest by .Charles
28 Aug 25
Spousal maintenance
Hi I got divorced in 2012 after a very acrimonious divorce I was married to a financially controlling person. I was issued a court order for child and spousal m ...
27 Aug 25, by rockchick
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FCO
Hi
At Court the Financial consent order said that my friend's house valued at £491,000 be sold and ex wife awarded £225,000. House placed on market in Jan ...
25 Aug 25, by Teresa22
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Settlement
I married my partner in November 2015 he left 8 months later before the birth of our daughter.I have offered him money over the years but he would not agree. ...
23 Aug 25, by Pippa0987@
Latest 25 Aug 25 by Pippa0987@
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Latest by Pippa0987@
25 Aug 25
No clean break
Hi All,
Does anyone have experience of what happens in court when an ex partner has been awarded 5 years of spousal maintenance with a possibility of extens ...
19 Aug 24, by Getmeoutofthisnightmare
Latest 24 Aug 25 by Getmeoutofthisnightmare
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Latest by Getmeoutofthisnightmare
24 Aug 25
Pension share obstruction & divorce seemingly abandoned
Hi

I'm the female respondent in a divorce petition dating back to 2009. House was sold 2012 & profit split equally. 1 child, now an adult who lives ...
23 Aug 25, by Marquis
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Will I be worse off?
So, I'm thinking of getting a divorce. I've been married to my husband for 14 years and I've had enough! Everything is in his name - I mean, everything ... even ...
12 Aug 25, by Seawychie
Latest 20 Aug 25 by Seawychie
Replies:7
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Latest by Seawychie
20 Aug 25
Failed FDR
My divorce proceedings are now entering the 4th year. Every application has gone through the Court. I am the Respondent in all the hearing except the financia ...
07 Dec 24, by EnJayAitch
Latest 20 Aug 25 by DestroyedInDivorce
Replies:20
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20 Aug 25
CMS/dads behaviour
I was never married so don't know if I'm allowed here. I'm desperate for help and don't know what to do. I'll try and be brief but this one's very complexed. I ...
07 Aug 25, by Mumabear
Latest 20 Aug 25 by DestroyedInDivorce
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Latest by DestroyedInDivorce
20 Aug 25
Financial Order Variation
A financial order was granted in 2019, with a timeframe of 5 years for the property to be sold or for the resident parent to buy out the non-resident parent.
18 Aug 25, by username190925
Latest 20 Aug 25 by DestroyedInDivorce
Replies:1
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Latest by DestroyedInDivorce
20 Aug 25
Variation of Spousal Maintenance
H,
Please could anyone help me with this please?
I divorced 13 years ago with a financial consent order in place with spousal mainentance from my ex hus ...
19 Aug 25, by novice
Latest 20 Aug 25 by DestroyedInDivorce
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20 Aug 25
Pension
Hi ive received the CETV from my husband pension. It matures in 2 years. Am I correct in saying that the closer to maturity the more accurate the CETV is ...
19 Aug 25, by Terri69
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Bundle for Dispute Resolution Hearing
Good morning

Can someone confirm the position for me? When preparing the court bundle with Form Es and other key documents, do all the parties bank sta ...
13 Aug 25, by JemimaA
Latest 14 Aug 25 by .Charles
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14 Aug 25
Consent order
Ii am going through divorce proceedings and i have just seen the draft ot the consent order written by my spouses solicitor.

we have agreed a settlemen ...
09 Aug 25, by Chwareteg
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I'm confused about everything
Sorry if this is in the wrong section.

I feel like I've got so many questions that keep coming into my head, DIY divorce as cant afford a solicitor.< ...
07 Aug 25, by Anonymoose25
Latest 08 Aug 25 by rubytuesday
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Latest by rubytuesday
08 Aug 25
Courts service 'covered up' IT bug that caused evidence to go missing
The body running courts in England and Wales has been accused of a cover-up, after a leaked report found it took several years to react to an IT bug that cau ...
08 Aug 25, by rubytuesday
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Consent order refusal
My ex and I both signed a consent order last year so that she could keep the marital home. It's to be transferred into her name soley once she has transferred m ...
14 Apr 25, by Uptotheeyeballs
Latest 07 Aug 25 by Uptotheeyeballs
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07 Aug 25
Is this a fair Deal
Hi

In the final stages of agreeing a clean break order w my ex.

I will be keeping the majoirty of our shared debt (£14k ish), they'll keep ...
05 Aug 25, by mm1991
Latest 05 Aug 25 by mm1991
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05 Aug 25
Will I get anything from a settlement?
I have a financial dispute resolution hearing coming up and am representing myself.
My husband and I were together for 13 years but only married for the fin ...
04 Aug 25, by JemimaA
Latest 04 Aug 25 by WYSPECIAL
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04 Aug 25
Form ES2
I'm a Litigant in Person in what's sadly become an unpleasant divorce.
I don't understand form ES2 there's no prior order in place. How do I compile it?
...
03 Aug 25, by PMcGoohan
Latest 04 Aug 25 by WYSPECIAL
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04 Aug 25
Issues to be determind
Hi,

I'm a Litigant in Person so am compiling the bundle.

I'm working on the chronology and issues to be determined.

I understand how ...
03 Aug 25, by PMcGoohan
Latest 04 Aug 25 by WYSPECIAL
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04 Aug 25
Question / Advice
My friends husband cheated on her using sex workers and porn sites. He has moved out, back with parents but obviously is paying for half bills as his name is st ...
31 Jul 25, by Molly@work
Latest 01 Aug 25 by WYSPECIAL
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01 Aug 25
Travel time as a Litigant in Person?
I was a Litigant in Person in a British Overseas Territory. I had to travel there. So I have travel expenses and the travel took, actually, more than 48 hours i ...
26 Jul 25, by NotaBene
Latest 29 Jul 25 by .Charles
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29 Jul 25
Question about d81 form
Hello, hope you can help. I'm confused with question 10 on the d81 form (after implementation of consent order). His solicitor has entered a value in my ...
18 Jul 25, by Heidi99
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Removing interest in life assurance policies
My ex and I have our Consent Order approved by the court now.

We each have life assurance policies benefiting the other, which are included in the orde ...
15 Jul 25, by ThisIsGoingWell
Latest 17 Jul 25 by WYSPECIAL
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17 Jul 25
D11
I am a foster carer and filling out the D11form

Do I have to put my foster allowance as income? ...
14 Jul 25, by Fisher123
Latest 15 Jul 25 by WYSPECIAL
Replies:1
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15 Jul 25
Financial order
Hi, my ex partners solicitor is sending me a financial order to sign, however, this will be arriving after the final order can be made. We've agreed a settlemen ...
11 Jul 25, by Harrysmith
Latest 12 Jul 25 by Harrysmith
Replies:2
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Latest by Harrysmith
12 Jul 25
Form E and CMS
Hi

Could anyone advice whether chld maintenance payments should be included in section 2.19 for other income? I have declared this on section 1.13 bu ...
06 Jul 25, by htelfer
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Pension lump sum
I am due to receive my pension with a lump sum and an annual payment . Am i allowed to buy a car with my lump sum ( financial hearing is not until september) ...
02 Jul 25, by Daisy 2309
Latest 03 Jul 25 by WYSPECIAL
Replies:3
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Latest by WYSPECIAL
03 Jul 25
D81 form
Good afternoon

I have been separated from my wife since 2016. We have long since financially separated by at least 5 years without any issues.
02 Jul 25, by Ambient99
Latest 02 Jul 25 by rubytuesday
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02 Jul 25
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Police pension
Hi just starting the financial process and have asked husbands pension provider for CETV. They said that my solicitor has to request it. Im not having a sol ...
01 Jul 25, by Terri69
Latest 02 Jul 25 by WYSPECIAL
Replies:1
:263
Latest by WYSPECIAL
02 Jul 25

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