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What are we each entitled to in our divorce settlement?

What does the law say about how to split the house, how to share pensions and other assets, and how much maintenance is payable.

What steps can we take to reach a fair agreement?

The four basic steps to reaching an agreement on divorce finances are: disclosure, getting advice, negotiating and implementing a Consent Order.

What is a Consent Order and why do we need one?

A Consent Order is a legally binding document that finalises a divorcing couple's agreement on property, pensions and other assets.

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	Solicitors 1538 topics Discussion on using solicitors. Please do not name any solicitor in this forum - keep your questions general/anonymous.	Re: non disclosure by .Charles 27 May 25
	Mediation 531 topics Discuss the role of mediation in divorce. Does it work? How much does it cost? What happens if my ex pulls out? Where can I find a mediator?	Mediation for finances by Alan1975 27 Aug 25
	Collaborative Law 56 topics Discussion on Collaborative Law, a process where solicitors of each party agree to reach a settlement through negotiation instead of going to court.	Now what..........???? by 5masheddreams 17 Mar 17
	DIY Divorce 832 topics Discussion on DIY divorce services as an alternative to using a solicitor. How much does it cost? How long does it take? What if we can't agree?	Mesher Order by Kenate 06 Aug 25

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