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	Solicitors 1538 topics Discussion on using solicitors. Please do not name any solicitor in this forum - keep your questions general/anonymous.	Re: non disclosure by .Charles 27 May 25
	Mediation 531 topics Discuss the role of mediation in divorce. Does it work? How much does it cost? What happens if my ex pulls out? Where can I find a mediator?	Mediation for finances by Alan1975 27 Aug 25
	Collaborative Law 56 topics Discussion on Collaborative Law, a process where solicitors of each party agree to reach a settlement through negotiation instead of going to court.	Now what..........???? by 5masheddreams 17 Mar 17
	DIY Divorce 832 topics Discussion on DIY divorce services as an alternative to using a solicitor. How much does it cost? How long does it take? What if we can't agree?	Mesher Order by Kenate 06 Aug 25

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