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What are we each entitled to in our divorce settlement?

What does the law say about how to split the house, how to share pensions and other assets, and how much maintenance is payable.

What steps can we take to reach a fair agreement?

The four basic steps to reaching an agreement on divorce finances are: disclosure, getting advice, negotiating and implementing a Consent Order.

What is a Consent Order and why do we need one?

A Consent Order is a legally binding document that finalises a divorcing couple's agreement on property, pensions and other assets.

 

Legal Services 3254 topics

Discussion on using legal services. Please do not name any specific firm in this forum - keep your questions general/anonymous.
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Solicitors 1538 topics

Discussion on using solicitors. Please do not name any solicitor in this forum - keep your questions general/anonymous.
Re: non disclosure
by .Charles
27 May 25

Mediation 531 topics

Discuss the role of mediation in divorce. Does it work? How much does it cost? What happens if my ex pulls out? Where can I find a mediator?
Mediation for finances
by Alan1975
27 Aug 25

Collaborative Law 56 topics

Discussion on Collaborative Law, a process where solicitors of each party agree to reach a settlement through negotiation instead of going to court.
Now what..........????
by 5masheddreams
17 Mar 17

DIY Divorce 832 topics

Discussion on DIY divorce services as an alternative to using a solicitor. How much does it cost? How long does it take? What if we can't agree?
Mesher Order
by Kenate
06 Aug 25
Subject Replies / Latest
decree absolute
My daughter's decree absolute has been lost in the post. Who issues them in Nottingham? She lives in Newark on Trent. Who can I contact to get a copy? ...
14 Jul 08, by richardf
Latest 14 Jul 08 by D L
Replies:1
:609
Latest by D L
14 Jul 08
Collaborative Law
I want to know if Collaborative Law is the best option to go down for a legal separation as I want it to be as amicable as possible and not drag on. Also I wan ...
24 Jun 08, by Hermarnie
Latest 24 Jun 08 by mike62
Replies:2
:679
Latest by mike62
24 Jun 08
Acknowledgement of Service
Dear Members,

I have received the divorce petition 5 days ago along with statement of arrangement for children and notice of proceedings. I also have ...
18 Jun 08, by sunny0198
Latest 20 Jun 08 by D L
Replies:1
:1107
Latest by D L
20 Jun 08
Help with solicitors and ex husband
Please help. My husband left in July last year, I started divorce proceedings, paid out £300 along with odd bits for courts, etc. The courts then ruled that he ...
10 Jun 08, by manicmand
Latest 10 Jun 08 by dawn1
Replies:1
:584
Latest by dawn1
10 Jun 08
Husbands stopped his wages into our joint account.
Husband has just informed me he has stopped his wages from going to our joint account and has 'decided' that he will pay me a monthly amount. Not happy about t ...
07 Jun 08, by butterfly1
Latest 07 Jun 08 by LittleMrMike
Replies:3
:709
Latest by LittleMrMike
07 Jun 08
Timeframes?
I have petitioned for divorce, my husband was served a couple of weeks ago and I assume he's now signed and returned the forms to the court.

I know the ...
31 May 08, by suzannec30
Latest 31 May 08 by mike62
Replies:1
:633
Latest by mike62
31 May 08
legal aid = negligence
:(im on my third solicitor now, i authorised her to take over the case 3 w ...
07 May 08, by dani_cali
Latest 23 May 08 by Fiona
Replies:12
:1341
Latest by Fiona
23 May 08
Divorce advice
Hi

Can any one help me please?
I have been with my partner for nearly 3 years
He left his wife both conscented quite friendly nearly 5 years ag ...
01 May 08, by Lobster
Latest 02 May 08 by Lobster
Replies:2
:463
Latest by Lobster
02 May 08
Please Help me
Hi,

I got married in India and after marriage we came together to Uk. After coming here, her behaviour changed towards me and i think, she marriied me ...
29 Apr 08, by a_anand_78
Latest 29 Apr 08 by Sera
Replies:3
:638
Latest by Sera
29 Apr 08
lies on divorce petition
Hi all
My partner received his divorce papers today. On the arrangements for children though there a 3 errors and I wondered what he should do about it.
17 Apr 08, by nessienoo
Latest 21 Apr 08 by nessienoo
Replies:2
:732
Latest by nessienoo
21 Apr 08
legal jargon
Does anyone know what this means?

'There will be a dismissal of claims under the Inheritance Act.'

Sadie ...
14 Mar 08, by sexysadie
Latest 14 Mar 08 by sexysadie
Replies:3
:710
Latest by sexysadie
14 Mar 08
contesting a divorce
if my husband contests my divorce petition what do i do? ...
12 Mar 08, by madge55
Latest 12 Mar 08 by Jacko
Replies:4
:1349
Latest by Jacko
12 Mar 08
To complicated for CAB - HELP?
great not :(, just managed to get in touch with CAB after weeks of trying ...
06 Mar 08, by Rebecca186
Latest 06 Mar 08 by Rebecca186
Replies:2
:717
Latest by Rebecca186
06 Mar 08
02 Mar 08, by NotMyIdea
Latest 03 Mar 08 by LittleMrMike
Replies:1
:995
Latest by LittleMrMike
03 Mar 08
Better to wait for a divorce or not?
My husband and I separated at the end of last year when he left the family home and two children aged 2&4 years old.

I would like to get a divo ...
29 Feb 08, by susie wong
Latest 29 Feb 08 by susie wong
Replies:3
:739
Latest by susie wong
29 Feb 08
can anyone help
Hello,

I have run my bits and pieces through the divorce calculator, and one thing struck me, the house about 60K in equity in it, although we have red ...
19 Feb 08, by Emalou33
Latest 22 Feb 08 by dukey
Replies:1
:732
Latest by dukey
22 Feb 08
Time limit
My wife and I are seperated and we have agreed to divorce. She filed the petition with the court and went off to work abroad. I returned the papers to the court ...
21 Feb 08, by hacman
Latest 21 Feb 08 by attilladahun
Replies:1
:743
Latest by attilladahun
21 Feb 08
Can you explain this paragraph for me please?
This has been sent to my partner from his wife's solicitor re Financial Matters.

It's the 3rd point of 5

All of our client's claims ...
14 Feb 08, by geb
Latest 14 Feb 08 by geb
Replies:4
:712
Latest by geb
14 Feb 08
How much does it cost?
Can anyone please tell me roughly how much a 'simple' divorce will cost in solicitor's fees, for no children but mortgaged house to be sold and proceeds divided ...
29 Jan 08, by Ladybird22
Latest 31 Jan 08 by Josh2008
Replies:8
:2932
Latest by Josh2008
31 Jan 08
Separation agreements
Hi guys,

just wondering if anyone knows if separation agreements can be back dated? My partner and his wife separated last March, now her lawyer are as ...
29 Jan 08, by JB954
Latest 29 Jan 08 by LittleMrMike
Replies:3
:856
Latest by LittleMrMike
29 Jan 08
Our Grandsons
PLEASE CAN ANYONE HELP URGENTLY?
Our daughter and her husband seperated 1 year ago. Since then there has been an enormous amount of animousity from her husb ...
26 Jan 08, by concernedgrandmother
Latest 26 Jan 08 by Fiona
Replies:3
:663
Latest by Fiona
26 Jan 08

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