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CSA Vs Maintenance Order

zonked
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31 Aug 10 #221909 by zonked

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sleeplessincyprus wrote:

... I'm not going to say anybody is right or wrong in this situation, but i'm pretty sure if you turn things around and say fight the case with a high possibility of losing and in the meantime pay out your annual salary, or the equivalent of 5 years worth of contact costs....most Fathers might just think again??
By the same token, if you had the choice to have twice as much contact in their country of residence or half as much in your country of residence for the same amount of money, which would you choose?

There is little point trying to explain how a father might feel about their child being removed from the country or for their parenting rations to be suddenly doubled and used as a bribe. Despite the sacrifices he lost and may continue to lose, which is a tragedy, but in essence he remains a parent whilst you continue to be what you are.

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