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Can I pay my children directly?

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31 Oct 10 #232021 by shayenic
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exactly - would be one thing if it was the latest 'must have' fashion item - but school uniforms?

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05 Nov 10 #232939 by bobsp
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I have a similar issue, I pay my ex weekly, and the boys (3) are clithed poorly IMHO. Their jeans are falling apart, trainers falling apart. I buy them clothes myself and keep them at mine, but when I pick them up they are in heavily stained clothes that are a little on the small side.

The ex, and her new partner are out every other weekend (when I have them) always seem to be in new clothes, and are going on a 2 week holiday next year. Neither of them work, he says he doesnt need to.....

I just have to pay and it drawers a tear every week as I know it (hardly any of it) is going on them and seems to be funding the ex and her BF's lifestyle...

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