the result of adultery - childrens emotions

Well the house is likely to take a long time to sell in this climate. Was the FH fair?

No totally unfair

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Can you appeal?

Very doubtful

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Survive.... I''m sorry ur in this position you have my sympathy. Have you talked to ex about this. Have you talked to your legal team re appeal.

I am heading to wards same position child devastated cause dad wants to sell. (see previous posts).... We have enuf to split although he''s still pushing for sale??? Baffled as he offered house previous. Think his new lady pulling strings!

Anyway I have sent an email to stbx stating children distressed and perhaps he should be thinking about them their feelings and needs and wants not his? Do you think this would be worth considering although I am Still awaiting a response.

You sound like a. brilliant mum. I wish I could be as good.. I. feel your pain because if your children are hurting then u r also. . Us mums are strong & survivors no matter what. happens. keep ur self well.. talk to friends and family... I really. do hope it works out for you all. Keep in touch x

Thanks RW. As I explained to SW, there really is no communicating with him. Within a few days of recevind FH results, he also has stated he will be reducing what he pays by appx £300 pcm, this is totally ''to get at me'' for some reason that I and all my frinds and family fail to comprehend, as it was he who had the affair and he has got exactly what he wanted at FH and yet still wants to push that knife in further..... over theyears he has tried anything to ''get at me'' again it is beyond me why and these questions will haunt me for a long while to come.

One of our children has started complaining of pains in his chest area, since he has been told about this. I think it is anxiety as it only comes on at night and didn''t happen when he was at a sleepover.
Ex (wow it feels good to say that), thinks it is some medical condition that has returned (of something he had as a baby). He has demanded that I take him to the doctor as I am the primary carer!!! So all of a sudden I am the primary carer.

Of course if I was really worried about my sons health then I would, but I do not have to be told to do this. However knowing him he will apply to the court for ''neglect'' or something.

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Oh and with regards to appeal. I am not a gambler in life. So lets just say I will be ''appealing'' in my head for a very long time!

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