The UK's largest and most visited divorce site.
Modern, convenient and affordable services.

We've helped over 1 million people since 2007.

 
Click this button for details of our
email, phone nbr and free consultations.
 

''You owe us money letters''

  • Caley
  • Caley's Avatar Posted by
  • Elite Member
  • Elite Member
More
20 Dec 13 #416665 by Caley
Topic started by Caley
Will make a nice little bonfire and in so doing will address my current problem of no heating!
I''d call that recycling.

Went to the '' you haven''t got a job yet so we get to humiliate you before we hand over the JSA.
I''m afraid I need to vent i hate how those places make you feel.
I know I know I''m super sensitive about having to sign on'' and all that including the little customer services touches one gets into the bargain.
''What medication are you on and can you prove it? my ''employment advisor'' shouted across the desk to me.
I leant in towards her and requested in a low angry voice'' could you please lower your voice, we are discussing medical information about me, which under the data protection act is considered ''sensitive information'' and as such
WOULD LIKE TO BE TREATED WITH SOME SORT OF DUE CONSIDERATION.
AND I AM A HUMAN BEING,
(god, sound like the bloody elephant man)
I make light of it here to you guys but all this kind of bureaucratic pish we have to endure in the ''new situation'' and do it alone, Its sometimes scary and get angry or cry.
I have never been able to work full time due to med condition but have always done something, 3 days etc.
last job was driving 100 miles a day, enjoyed it but just too much I ran myself into the ground.
Another sob story; it is what it is but sooo frustrating to be treated like an imbecile. I informed the manager i saw, it was bureaucratic nonsense and very political.
The main reason for my very pissed offed ness is due to THEIR mistake I have received no money since Oct 13. Have sold the gold jewellery so next I guess it''s the body!! Kings Cross here I come. Nice.

  • driven40
  • driven40's Avatar
  • Platinum Member
  • Platinum Member
More
20 Dec 13 #416667 by driven40
Reply from driven40
((((Hugs))))

  • driven40
  • driven40's Avatar
  • Platinum Member
  • Platinum Member
More
20 Dec 13 #416671 by driven40
Reply from driven40
((((Hugs))))

  • elizadoolittle
  • elizadoolittle's Avatar
  • Platinum Member
  • Platinum Member
More
20 Dec 13 #416680 by elizadoolittle
Reply from elizadoolittle
Xxx.

Know what you mean.

It occurred to me too to sell my body but its not much of an offer!! Even my husband doesn''t seem to want it and if he can find someone else then anyone can!

Maybe we can meet up in kgs x and form some kind of double act?! Maybe a comedy routine?

X

  • elizadoolittle
  • elizadoolittle's Avatar
  • Platinum Member
  • Platinum Member
More
20 Dec 13 #416681 by elizadoolittle
Reply from elizadoolittle
Ps re being treated like an imbecile:

I spent 3 hours today being assessed by the neuropsychology dept re memory loss. As well as asking if I knew where we were and what day of the week it was I was asked how many words I could think of that began with the latter F. I resisted the obvious temptations.

  • Caley
  • Caley's Avatar Posted by
  • Elite Member
  • Elite Member
More
20 Dec 13 #416685 by Caley
Reply from Caley
Hi Eliza
Great Idea !
And if we get no customers (as if ..,2 lovely lasses such as our selves) .,,
we can go Christmas shopping ken Dodd style ...as he said last week,
10 shoplifting days left to Christmas ;)) :))

Just stoking the wood burner with my pile of ''begging'' letters from the banks etc ,,,,,tsk they just won''t give up lol xxx

  • Nigella19
  • Nigella19's Avatar
  • Platinum Member
  • Platinum Member
More
21 Dec 13 #416691 by Nigella19
Reply from Nigella19
It sometimes occurs to me with the wit and humour on here that if we could all just put our minds to it we could write a fantastic comedy script for TV and all make a mint.

Of course people would say things like ''not true to life'' and ''not believable'' wouldn''t they. Especially when we script out exactly what stbx''s tend to do and say !

Nige

(you ladies are amazing for coping in such dire and adverse circumstancesx)

Moderators: wikivorce teamrubytuesdaydukeyhadenoughnowTetsSheziLinda SheridanForsetiMitchumWhiteRoseLostboy67WYSPECIALBubblegum11

Do you need help sorting out a fair financial settlement?

Our consultant service offers expert advice and support to help you reach agreement on a fair financial settlement quickly, and for less than a quarter of the cost of using a traditional high street solicitor.

 

We can help you to get a fair financial settlement.

Negotiate a fair deal from £299

Helping you negotiate a fair financial settlement with your spouse (or their solicitor) without going to court.


Financial Mediation from £399

Financial mediation is a convenient and inexpensive way to agree on a fair financial settlement.


Consent Orders from £950

This legally binding agreement defines how assets (e.g. properties and pensions) are to be divided.


Court Support from £299

Support for people who have to go to court to get a fair divorce financial settlement without a solicitor.