Healing

Annie

Good for you booking the trip . Takes courage . You see Annie already your instincts are kicking in . All we have is the here and now. People say when I have this I will be ok , when I get there I will be ok when I etc etc .

In doing so, we neglect the here and now we worry unnecessary about past and future .Here and now we are ok . Right here right now we are ok . And you are ok . Just thoughts running around your mind creating mayhem. Massive hug for you . You are not alone . It''s your thoughts telling you that which creates suffering . Loneliness is a feeling not a fact .

Come on . You got a great life ahead of you . You just do not see it yet . You will , you will .
Good times are ahead

Dx

Thanks again Declan that will keep me going for a day or too, your thoughts are always appreciated. You sure are a big help to us
Newish wikis.

Declan you are a good man.

Thanks.

M.

It takes a lot of courage to keep putting one foot in front of the other and faking being ''fine thanks''. It''s exhausting being brave all the time. Believe it or not, one day you will wake up and realise you''re actually fed up with feeling down all the time, and that''s when you turn a corner.

Is that healing? It''s the right word for me anyway, because I wanted to ''get better''. Sometimes scars represent overcoming massive physical wounds, but emotional healing is more about restoring the best of who we used to be and recognising and endorsing who we are now.

The passing of time will leads us all to different places, new experiences and a brand new existance and for most wikis, that will bring greater happiness. For many wikis happier than their marriage used to be. That surely is being healed.

Keep playing the music Moona until your very soul is healed.

Healing?? Hmmm .... funny word! For me ''healing'' was painful and the best analogy I can make is likening it to breaking a limb. It repairs in time but when the weather changes it causes some pain and discomfort.

I am four years years on, nearly 5 and I still have moments when I feel the emotional ache. Will it ever go away? Not sure, but it is not a sharp excruciating pain.. it''s mildly uncomfortable, so I am hopeful.

As for moving on? That phrase does my head in Moona.. I agree with you. It is all about adapting to change. I think it''s all about finding a different way to live. Some things are ''better different'' like not answering to anyone and not living in a toxic relationship but other things that are ''worse different'' are things like going from a double income family to a sole income family and all the financial stress.

Annie.. the best thing I ever did was go away with myself Learning to love your own company and being your own best friend is one of the most empowering things you can do for yourself. It truly gave me some peace in life. I hope it does the same for you.