| | I don''t know what to do Separated for 6 months. Only had minimal e-mail contact. Papers from her lawyer came the past week. Had a meltdown. Was nearly sectioned when seeing GP at medic ... 24 May 15, by depressed_boy Latest 27 May 15 by afonleas | Replies:10 :908 | |
| | 21 years ago So 21 years ago tomorrow was our first date, in fact not sure a weekend away as friends really is classed as a date but hey. We drove to Dover and got the Calai ... | Replies:11 :1007 | |
| | Why.... do I feel not good 3 year on. Hi there
Its been a while I guess
Three year ago we split. i have obtained decree Absolute...financial order complete .. basically done and dusted. ... Latest 18 May 15 by Declan | Replies:17 :1440 | |
| | Trust Hi
Just a quick one.
Is it possible to ever truly trust a member of the opposite sex after the pain of divorce? Really trust them without thin ... Latest 13 May 15 by Nanny18 | Replies:16 :1375 | |
| | right to know medical history Quick question:
Have I got right to ask for a gp letter?
Don''t want to be controlling but just my son to be safe.
I have the feeling ... Latest 06 May 15 by Gillian48 | Replies:10 :966 | |
| | What about me? Is this ''evil stepmother'' syndrome?
I have been on here since 2007 & divorce was my choice. The ex is marrying & has asked 2 of our 3 to be best m ...
Latest 28 Apr 15 by julie321 | Replies:3 :435 | |
| | Memories Not sure memories is the right title, but today is his fiftieth birthday and even after eight months of separation I have spent a good deal of the day crying. W ... | Replies:11 :1068 | |
| | found it so hard! Hello all,
Im not sure how you have all coped but I have found the festive season so very very hard, I have tried my best but after being with my husba ... Latest 22 Apr 15 by Wendy29 | Replies:19 :1432 | |
| | Life on the razor''s edge Hello all,
I edited out my original bleat but the title still applies perfectly.
The latest is that the house my lovely STBX persuaded the est ... Latest 12 Apr 15 by Cambronne | Replies:24 :2281 | |
| | Light at the end of a tunnel..... Evening all.
Just wanted to let those who have supported me through this process I''m nearly there.
For those just starting out believe me whe ... 10 Apr 15, by Home alone feeling better Latest 11 Apr 15 by Home alone feeling better | Replies:6 :464 | Latest by Home alone feeling better 11 Apr 15 |
| | Anyone else had reaction like this? Hi All
Well it wasn''t how I planned it but I finally told my OH that the marriage was over.
Understandably he is VERY angry and is in complet ... Latest 09 Apr 15 by Marshy_ | Replies:8 :1033 | |
| | Latest 23 Mar 15 by Vastra1 | Replies:11 :1197 | |
| | Is this normal? I actually initiated the separation as things were not working out between us after eight years, five of which we have been married for, but I feel so down and ... | Replies:8 :1176 | |
| | Bad week So after eight months I really hoped I would start feeling stronger in myself,but the last couple of weeks have been a rollercoaster ride. Finally managed to ge ... Latest 22 Mar 15 by MrsMathsisfun | Replies:3 :443 | Latest by MrsMathsisfun 22 Mar 15 |
| | Plagued with bad health Before all this c**p happened to me I''d never even heard of anxiety or panic attacks. Stress? That was for other people & a visit to the doctor was rarity ... Latest 07 Mar 15 by Cambronne | Replies:7 :1136 | |
| | More down than ups I went to my GP''s yesterday, told her about the divorce and that I was having difficulty functioning - i.e. disruptive sleep patterns, hair falling out memory ... Latest 01 Mar 15 by polar | Replies:10 :1307 | |
| | Bad day today( Hello wikipeeps,
Just thought I would vent my frustrations here, hoping that I will feel better about things.
Me and the wife have split, it''s now ... 28 Feb 15, by gettingdivorced101 Latest 28 Feb 15 by afonleas | Replies:1 :446 | |
| | Help with Depression Family break-up, separation and divorce are incredibly stressful times in our lives, and have an enormous emotional impact on us.
At times, it can feel ... 03 Aug 13, by rubytuesday Latest 23 Feb 15 by rubytuesday | Replies:4 :1614 | Latest by rubytuesday 23 Feb 15 |
| | Very stressed about the future Hi all
After 3 years of separation, my divorce is well underway – with a collaborative ex-husband.
We are in complete agreement on the division o ... Latest 19 Feb 15 by NotasStressedDad | Replies:14 :1730 | Latest by NotasStressedDad 19 Feb 15 |
| | Relief from Divorce Pain Hello
I have just returned home from doing my voluntary stint at the Hospital Radio Station .
Presented a show aimed at the patients and staff . Ho ... Latest 13 Feb 15 by crimsonlake | Replies:2 :425 | Latest by crimsonlake 13 Feb 15 |
| | Time Frame to Healing Hi
I have heard or read that it can take a year for every five years that one was married to fully recover from divorce.
I was married 29 yr so by that ... | Replies:30 :2207 | |
| | Emotional rollercoaster Had a meeting at accountants last Friday and agreed (in hindsight, I think foolishly) to go for a coffee with stbx afterwards.
It''s so difficult in th ... Latest 08 Feb 15 by justy_one | Replies:4 :449 | |
| | the D word! Why is it I have been separated 4.5 years, got used to it apart from a few short lived moments and as soon as he wants a divorce, it is like going back in time. ... Latest 04 Feb 15 by Mitchum | Replies:3 :410 | |
| | Warning! Just thought I should put a warning out there for anyone thinking of going through the court process. I was dragged through the courts for 2 years, self represe ... Latest 04 Feb 15 by sexysadie | Replies:8 :1046 | |
| | Phew .... Consent Order palava Hi Gang
Get this . The ex has been pushing and pushing regarding the consent order always wanting more . Can''t tell you the grief is caused .
Anyw ... Latest 03 Feb 15 by beatle | Replies:1 :426 | |
| | met with him I met him at the pub. I wanted to discuss my feelings as we have two adult children/ grandchild. I wanted to remain amicable.
We split 4.5 years ago th ... Latest 29 Jan 15 by lolitajade | Replies:4 :428 | Latest by lolitajade 29 Jan 15 |
| | End of Life - Can''t Blog My last blog was filled with elation and pride, I wish I could say the same of this, but I can''t. So apologies to those who don''t want to read sad news - just ... Latest 28 Jan 15 by driven40 | Replies:7 :1091 | |
| | Emotional Abuse I have today come to the realisation that I was abused by my ex. Not in any physical way (much), but emotionally abused. The realisation came to me when I was ... 12 Jul 12, by hungryhungryhippos Latest 25 Jan 15 by worriedwitless | Replies:52 :4153 | Latest by worriedwitless 25 Jan 15 |
| | not as strong as i thought Hi all...so last week I stupidly allowed myself to be talked into a blind date...i felt awkward the whole time conversation was forced and tbh I would rather ha ... Latest 15 Jan 15 by Marshy_ | Replies:5 :385 | |
| | arghhhh I have been separated 4.5 years and then my husband who has someone else, asked for divorce. I am single. Been married for 25 years. My ''old'' dad fell out wit ... Latest 14 Jan 15 by lolitajade | Replies:16 :1449 | Latest by lolitajade 14 Jan 15 |
| | I think I have finally stopped crying Well its been along time coming but since April 2013 I have cried and cried every single day following my family breakdown. Ive struggled working full time and ... 28 Dec 14, by NotasStressedDad Latest 04 Jan 15 by oakridge | Replies:10 :1056 | |
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| | unable to move on I have been seperated for 23 months now to a man I was married to for 22 years. Twice I had a breeakdown and I cried everyday for a year. My ex took my daughter ... Latest 27 Dec 14 by stemginger | Replies:9 :1036 | Latest by stemginger 27 Dec 14 |
| | Christmas Eve Well This is my third Christmas without the ex.
It''s a better one than the last two . However, it''s party time and off I go again to a party where the maj ...
Latest 25 Dec 14 by Vastra1 | Replies:11 :978 | |
| | Really struggling Hi,
I need a bit of help from you guys.
I''m really struggling with my emotions at the moment. When I start crying I get so distressed and I ... Latest 21 Dec 14 by polar | Replies:35 :3032 | |
| | One step back day Hi
I just feel like venting a bit . I must be on one of those one step back days because I am feeling a tad low this morning . In fact it''s been hanging ar ...
Latest 15 Dec 14 by afonleas | Replies:2 :376 | |
| | cant pull myself together Its been nearly 5 months since my husband walked out. Only seen him once when he came to collect his belonging 2 weeks later, he said on that day that leaving m ... 01 Dec 14, by goldengirl65 Latest 03 Dec 14 by AngieP | Replies:13 :1213 | |
| | Why me ?!! Hi im new to this site , i have posted on the divorce forum . Iam 43 years old i have 2 beautiful children 19,17 . They are from my previouse marriage. They are ... 21 Nov 14, by Hadagutsfull Latest 27 Nov 14 by Patsy39 | Replies:9 :1069 | |
| | really low earlier today I found out that my stbx has met someone new, she only left 5 weeks ago, apparently it is not physical between them as he lives over 100 miles awa ... Latest 27 Nov 14 by NellNoRegrets | Replies:32 :2254 | Latest by NellNoRegrets 27 Nov 14 |
| | Don''t let this happen to you! Separated 3 years in December, no contact apart from a few texts and grapevine gossip about his antics. I''m in good place but for one reason or another the div ... 23 Nov 14, by Gloriasurvive Latest 25 Nov 14 by Fiona | Replies:9 :980 | |
