where do I stand?

No Financial resolution has been done as yet, have court again in March time...

I requested my law course fees, so that I can do my course over again, in exchange for the house, pensions, everything in the house and my renewal business as well...

BluePetal wrote:

His ex partner left the country, to get away from him;

I feel a fool, as I thought he was unlucky in love, but that is not the case at all..

He just uses people, for what he can get and not interested in doing the right thing at all...

I could've written that! Except his ex-wife is dead. Probably because of all the stress he caused her!

But here's the twist: Sooner or later; these con men come up against THE STOP SIGN OF MADNESS! (That's you and me both). And when they exploit our intelligence for their own commercial gain, (as yours and mine did) they forgot one thing: that they're now up against us intelligent, sharp women in a Court room.



...and despite that we're a little scratched, (Fools in love) we are still intelligent, and will put a stop to their games.

When you walk in to that Courtroom, you are not a fool anymore. You are a smart (potential) Lawyer, and you look the part, act the part (of a Business Professional) and you stick up for what you want, and not give in to what he won't give.

I took marriage very seriously and thought it was for life... Instead I am left as a divorcee, in debt, no house, no children and just want to go back to Law School..

Hi and thanks for the friends request (granted!)

OK: So in order to get a ballpark view of what you might get from this short-term marriage, best answer the following, and some bright wiki peep that's good at doing the sums will hopefully help:


Your respective ages;

The number of children you have and their ages;

How many nights the children spend with each parent;

The length of your marriage and any period of pre marriage cohabitation;

Your respective incomes;

Your respective outgoings;

Your assets - both soley held and joint;

Your liabilities.

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Hi GD,

I'm not good at doing the sums, so I've copied and pasted your details to a new thread here. (Sometimes when your post gets lost in someone elses thread, it's not seen.

Put this up Sunday morning, hope you get some replies:

www.wikivorce.com/divorce/Divorce-Forum/...an-Please.html#82042

You might add to that link, value of MH, any equity in the home, number of years of actual co-hab, (was it five?) and what does he suggest re: the debts.

Word of caution, with the amount of debt here, the income of £80k (assume that was generated by the Business?) it doesn't look like there's much to be fighting over. If you went to FH in Family court (Ancillary Relief proceedings) you could be looking at £60k to settle this. And for what you're asking, that wouldn't be worth the fight.

In Commercial litigation, the costs would be even higher I imagine.

Thank you hon, for redirecting it to the right section; really appricate that...