No, the second time was no better

So, I don't do this kind of thing. Then again, I'm finding myself doing a lot of things I don't do lately, so why not? The short of it is that I'm currently wrapping up my second attempt at marriage and I'm only 35. I have no children or legal or financial issues to report, I'm just profoundly sad and want that to stop. Won't be moving out of here till the first, but she hasn't slept here for a few days now. This all began to end only a month or so ago, though it was well on its way long before that. Perhaps I should have just blogged...

Hope to find support, or at least some solace.

Welcome to wiki! You will find plenty of support here so please blog or post whichever helps you or come into chat when you feel up to it.

It is also my second divorce and it is very sad.

Take care of yourself.

Poppie

Sorry you are going through this a second time, helps to write things down and you will find people on here in a similar situation to yourself. I am still trying to get my head around my first marriage failing, just had my nisi so shouldn't be too long before I can put a bit of closure on things.

So sorry this is the second time round for you, you will find so much support and advice on here.Its good to just blog and let it all out rather than keeping it all bottled up,it maybe better
to write it down you will receive so much help on here there are alot of good people who will offer you help.Try and take baby steps, in time it will get easier theres just so many emotions
you have to go thru first.
Take Care
Molly05

Hi EC

Welcome to wikivorce:)

I can hear the sadness in the tone of your post and I feel for you. There are a few of us here going through our second divorce and it is... incredibly sad

I had never blogged, used a chatroom etc. before arriving at wiki - but this is a safe place, with lots of support, guidance, practical and legal advice on offer.

Use what you need

Shezi

I feel you...I'm only 31 and facing the end of my 2nd marriage. I feel like an idiot that I picked the wrong person AGAIN. I hope it makes you feel better to know that you aren't the only one going through this for the 2nd time. It's hard but I am really trying to stay positive as I have 2 kids to care for. You are lucky that you don't have kids thrown in this mess.

Hi MzNoma

I stayed in my second marriage for 2 years longer than I knew I needed to in order to avoid facing that realisation!

Still, I would rather be out of relationship that can't work and feel like an idiot... than still sitting there and banging my head against a brick wall.

Welcome to wikivorce

Shezi