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31 Jul 09 #135401 by YNK000
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Hi Spadge

Who I am is, the person I was before I met my tbx. Lots of things happened over the years, but underneath all of that I was always me, but I was me dealing with bad stuff happening to me.

Now I am feeling what it is like to be able to express who I am as a single entity and not part of a couple and I'm learning how I fit in in my new world as just me.

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31 Jul 09 #135404 by Spadge
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Hi nature girly

So proud of u hun. It's taken me 25 years n living in hell to realise I have to find the real me again - and guess what!

I LOVE ME XXX

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31 Jul 09 #135405 by Rainyday
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Who am I?

Enjoying being me! Have rediscovered myself and I like me!

However I have noted your initial posts and shall bear them in mind as I "travel" through this journey of being me.

Thank you for your wise words.

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31 Jul 09 #135411 by cisco
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Who am I ? I am who I want to be now....... no one's going to stop me!

Cisco ;)

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31 Jul 09 #135414 by YNK000
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Yey Spadge good on you, I wish you a really lovely happy future ahead.

:)

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31 Jul 09 #135416 by Spadge
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Bang your own drums peeps xxx

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31 Jul 09 #135418 by Rainyday
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For me, it has been a long, horrendous journey however I see it in the same way that "a path without obstacles leads to nowhere!"

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