I am so shocked

I agree with you ChrisM. Life can be mundane I had just started a new demanding job when he decided to look for some excitment. Sometimes you just need to support each other through difficult times. It cant be glam all the time.

Specialdad wrote:

I accept your point about the emotional input.

If the man is giving the emotional input and the woman does not respond then its curtains as far as I am concerned.

Its no good living in a loveless marriage.

My s2bx had no will for sex with me for 6 years as he was terrified I would get pregnant. For 6 years i was totally faithful and accepted it. Its not just the women that can clamp their legs together

Hi twinks
i hope you meat the man of your dreams who will fullfill your every neeed (as often as you need hehe)

Think about if you want to fight for him or not and under what circumstances, because you also have choices here.. I wish you calmness, strength and healing. You will learn alot about yourself in these trying times...

Dukey I am shocked at your flippent answer But God so do I

Here Here,
well said, I am in the process of divorce, he is with someone else now but he wasn't when we split I think he just had a midlife crisis or something, male menopuase I believe,lol, but anyway, I was with him 17 years, sex life was very good, but as many women crave some love and affection, to a lot of men it's just sex there is a difference between making love and passionate sex, not many men know this but a select few, I always hated the roll on roll off technique, isn't it funny how men shower you with gifts for the first year or so then once they own you, your just a part of the furniture, something they can use then make sure it is still there when needed.
Sorry to go on but more men should learn the making love not just sex technique, a women has feelings she takes care of her man so he should show appreciation as often as he can.

My 2 brothers treat there wives like princesses no matter what they look like.