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can my wife bring men into our marital home

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21 Sep 09 #148349 by unsure88
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hi after 28 years of marriege my wife has decieded we are to seperate we have three children left a home 19, 17 and 15
we cant agree for either od=f us to move out and there are financial implications to this anyway
can my wife bring back men boyfriends into the marital home?

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21 Sep 09 #148357 by Elle
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IMHO she could not morally do this if she has any regard for the other occupants

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21 Sep 09 #148371 by Lucretia
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My limited understanding of this is, even if you are separated, you are still legally married, so surely it would b adultery?

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21 Sep 09 #148377 by rubytuesday
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yes it would be adultery, Lucretia - not to mention confusing for the children, and extremely difficult for Unsure.

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22 Sep 09 #148458 by Marshy_
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Yes she can bring men back. Yes in theory she can have them stay there. And yes she can move them in. This is provided that you both own the house. But it would be a bad move on her behalf. It would cuase massive issues. How do I know? Cos thats what my ex did. C.

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22 Sep 09 #148577 by andru
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How the hell can people stoop so low its just beyond me.The way I'm feeling at the moment I would literally throw them both out.I know that's a knee jerk reaction but I would not have that happening in my home.Even during a breakup your/her morels should not be changed.
Sorry mate but no way..

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22 Sep 09 #148589 by Marshy_
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Hi Andru. Try it and see what happens? I was being threatend as well. I reported it to the boys in blue and they did zip. Basicly anyone can stay as a guest at the invitation of your stbx. And if you do try and throw them out thats assult and you wont get back in after they lock you up. And you are screwed. There is nothing you can do. Unless its just you on the deeds. Then its your home and you can just eject them.

But I was lucky. I just moved into the garage. It was tough and cold and lots of spiders but I survived. And it made me tough. But it made my chest bad and I got lots of chest infections.

Morals dont come into divorce. Often people play realy dirty and you see a side to them you have never seen before. Divorce teaches you a lot about people. Divorce brings out the worst in people. C.

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