Hi All

Wow what a fab site I need to set aside some time to read through all this info. Hi everyone xx I have already got my divorce thro dated 27th Aug but still battling it out for some money (i am the wife part) and i have a 2.5 year old daughter with him. I have bought a new house and moved out of the old house (my choice) with our daughter. My ex is messing about rather with not agreeing to any reasonable valuations so we have paid for a valuation which he has agreed to accept this time. Just want to wish you all the best of luck with this challenging time, its not what any of us planned. Browneyxx

Hi Browney

Welcome to wiki

Hepofully you will find all the answers you need on the forum , if not please post and someone will answer your questions.
You can also find alot of us in the chat room if you fancy coming in for a chat.

Hi Browney,
welcome to wiki.
I have benefited enormous from this site and made friends.I am sure you will too.
take care

Thanks you guys xx and good morning to you. Well i saw the offending ex this morning and he still makes me angry, i hope ill loose this intense negativity towards him. I tried to get into the chat room but dont think ive got the right stuff installed but will get it sorted soon. xx

Hi there!

I'm just embarking on the life changing experience. Having the children and trying your best for their needs is my priority. I've now come to the conclusion that I want to move on and start rebuilding our lives. I really do not want to get involved in a bitter tangle as we have been through enough.
It just makes you feel how did it all get to this? When will everything settle down? Life is pretty much upside down and not knowing the future is difficult.

I feel that prioritising the child's needs keeps you going and gives you a more positive feeling.

I just live the days my telling myself it will all be better one day!

Take care on your journey!

Big,
welcome to wiki.
It does get better.But make sure that you get what you deserve otherwise you might spend the rest of your life feeling bitter.
take care

Hiya, you are all so very supportive thanks. I had a short marriage only 5 years, my XH had a life threatening illness which made him realise that a wife and child was not what he wanted, well now come to the conclusion that the daughter is ok it was the wife that was not wanted, he has her 2-3 nights a week. I basically bought a new house with some savings that were mine before we married and some help from my parents in the form of a loan, have a huge mortgage to pay and in need of some settlement money to get it reduced, i don’t have a TV or telephone in the house as cash is so tight. He is paying me maintenance which we agreed between us but messing about with the settlement. We have gone down the solicitor route for it all, I have recently been seeing a bloke and been asked by XH solicitor what my relationship is with Mr new bloke, my solicitor asked me if I had any current plans to co-habit or remarry does anyone know why this is and if he does move in how this affects any settlement?