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Married for 9 months! Who gets what? Hi everyone, looking for some advice! where do I start… in 2015 i met my stbx, relationship started and living together by end of year. In h ... 21 Jul 21, by Whodathought Latest 21 Jul 21 by Whodathought	Replies:2 :731	Latest by Whodathought 21 Jul 21
Difficult situation Hi, Would love to hear people's opinions/recommendations. Much more to this situation but tried to keep it as short as possible with some context but if you hav ... 21 Jul 21, by brokenconfused Latest 21 Jul 21 by brokenconfused	Replies:2 :566	Latest by brokenconfused 21 Jul 21
So complicated My husband and I have lived separately for two years, although he has been living on and off in our other house for about ten years. So - the separation was n ... 18 Jul 21, by Paddiloo Latest 20 Jul 21 by hadenoughnow	Replies:1 :683	Latest by hadenoughnow 20 Jul 21
Statement of information form Hi there wonder if anyone could be of help? Statement of information d81 form!! What does property ( net of mortgage mean)? Our house value is £265, 119,00 c ... 16 Jul 21, by Sparkes Latest 18 Jul 21 by wikivorce team	Replies:1 :1399	Latest by wikivorce team 18 Jul 21
Anyone from Leeds? Hi, I’m Mike and I live in a very leafy part of Leeds and am just into the very early stages of divorce, with the stbx living elsewhere. Just wondered if anyo ... 07 Jul 21, by Silver top	Replies:0 :461
New to this Hi my name is Andy, I have been married 12 years, I have 2 kids 14 and 17, I want to get a no fault divorce as the marriage is completely over, the house is in ... 04 Jul 21, by AaR2527 Latest 05 Jul 21 by .Charles	Replies:1 :458	Latest by .Charles 05 Jul 21
6 weeks later I was supposed to be getting married on 19th June . I found out on 13th may that he has been having a relationship for 5 years with a work colleague . We ha ... 26 Jun 21, by heidismum Latest 29 Jun 21 by Marbles2021	Replies:1 :683	Latest by Marbles2021 29 Jun 21
Selling the family home Hi, can anyone give me some advice? My (future) ex wants me to sell and have his "share" of the property. We have two children under 18 for whom I ... 23 Jun 21, by Petal01 Latest 23 Jun 21 by WYSPECIAL	Replies:1 :697	Latest by WYSPECIAL 23 Jun 21
Hello everyone. My name is Karen Hello everyone. My name is Karen, I'm 32 and I'm thinking about filing for divorce. But maybe I just got carried away with such thoughts, maybe something else c ... 07 Jun 21, by BpiccuK2 Latest 23 Jun 21 by Marbles2021	Replies:1 :1189	Latest by Marbles2021 23 Jun 21
Unsure.. Hi there, I've been having little or no response from my ex regarding my proposals for financial settlement, I'm just receiving procrastination. We've done ... 11 May 21, by Shipinthenight Latest 16 May 21 by hadenoughnow	Replies:2 :577	Latest by hadenoughnow 16 May 21
Sad Hello i dont want to be here and desperately want to find some lighthearted way to intruduce myself but I can’t after 22 years of marriage ... 08 May 21, by Mondino Latest 10 May 21 by hadenoughnow	Replies:1 :571	Latest by hadenoughnow 10 May 21
Introducing myself hi everyone I'm a dad of 3 going through a divorce. It really dragged out, we separated over 7 years ago. We have gone through mediation and have an ag ... 29 Apr 21, by gooddadunderconstruction	Replies:0 :537
Timeframe for keeping contents of ex Hi Consent order finalised after nearly two years in January. List of contents within order agreed he will collect with 72 hours notice at mutually convenient t ... 05 Apr 21, by Illgetthere Latest 12 Apr 21 by Illgetthere	Replies:2 :579	Latest by Illgetthere 12 Apr 21
Sectioned under MHA Hello Hope everybody is keeping safe... I have joined as I’m hoping to help my sister with her financial side ... she is Divorced but is currentl ... 07 Apr 21, by Yamyam	Replies:0 :521
Considering Divorce options due to extended separation due to COVID I will try not to waffle. Trying to create a bullet point history of events. I was in military in 1991-2013. Owning own house m ... 03 Apr 21, by Clyde-73	Replies:0 :417
Land Registry HR1 Please could you advise me as to the easiest way to get a copy of a land registry house rights form and to fill it in correctly ? Or do you have to have it done ... 23 Mar 21, by Hey Latest 28 Mar 21 by wikivorce team 1 2	Replies:7 :1332	Latest by wikivorce team 28 Mar 21
Which main documents to hand for my 1st court hearing Hi all, I'm prepping for my 1st court hearing in 2 days via video link. I'd like to have the main documents in front of me. Can anyone please advise i ... 01 Mar 21, by Beas19 Latest 27 Mar 21 by hadenoughnow	Replies:3 :623	Latest by hadenoughnow 27 Mar 21
I'm in shock!.. On the 4th of January this year my wife told me "it's over.. I'm done"..I could not believe what I was hearing?..she says its because I've neglected h ... 25 Jan 21, by Lyd Latest 08 Mar 21 by MOF	Replies:6 :893	Latest by MOF 08 Mar 21
Custody vs 50/50 Hi everyone, My overall question is one related to costs as the title suggests. I do not want in any way to take children away from their mother, so ... 04 Mar 21, by SASManJim Latest 07 Mar 21 by SASManJim 1 2	Replies:8 :1520	Latest by SASManJim 07 Mar 21
I pay the majority of the bills from my salary, excluding the building insurance My husband is self employed he is 67 and we have married for 34 years. We have three children together now adults. He pays for the building insurance and the ... 01 Mar 21, by Lee-francis Latest 02 Mar 21 by WYSPECIAL	Replies:1 :473	Latest by WYSPECIAL 02 Mar 21
Finally seen the gas “light” Hi, I have finally plucked up the courage to leave after 32 years together. Husband has been gaslighting me since the beginning of time. everything ... 07 Feb 21, by Comawhite Latest 25 Feb 21 by Djsmith	Replies:4 :814	Latest by Djsmith 25 Feb 21
Advice please - FDR Hi all. Advice please...... Ex is 44. I'm 43. 11 year marriage ended in 2017 due to ex abuse alcohol & dv. 2 non-mols with ex being removed from FMH in ... 23 Feb 21, by Nattyasher Latest 24 Feb 21 by hadenoughnow	Replies:1 :507	Latest by hadenoughnow 24 Feb 21
Ostrich seeks exhumation Hello. I've been separated for 2 years and it is still the dominant force in my life. The divorce was started and responded to but I stalled it there because we ... 26 Jun 20, by Konrad Latest 20 Feb 21 by Konrad	Replies:2 :686	Latest by Konrad 20 Feb 21
Final Hearing Date Hi All, I am new to this site. Currently going through a Financial Remedy case. We have the Decree Nisi and had the First Appointment in Sep 2019 (pre-Covid ... 20 Feb 21, by breakfree369	Replies:0 :2618
Financial order Hi hoping for some advice, i have been separated for over 5 years . My ex was abusive violent. Plus financial abuse left with debts on cards i didnt know o had ... 15 Feb 21, by Lee1976 Latest 16 Feb 21 by Lee1976	Replies:2 :667	Latest by Lee1976 16 Feb 21
Disabled and divorce Hey guys. New to this site. I am currently going through a divorce and the financial settlement is coming up. I earn more but have a progressive life ... 14 Feb 21, by Disableddivorce Latest 15 Feb 21 by hadenoughnow	Replies:1 :510	Latest by hadenoughnow 15 Feb 21
Who needs enemies. Hi, I'm actually on here on behalf of my mother in law (she doesn't know). They have been married for 30 years and in that time there have been multiple ... 10 Feb 21, by TheDarkKnight Latest 13 Feb 21 by hadenoughnow	Replies:1 :624	Latest by hadenoughnow 13 Feb 21
Free 20 min phone call Hi there, I'm new to this site. Can someone tell me how I arrange my FREE 20 min phone call, and who I arrange it with? Thanks Frank ... 07 Feb 21, by wherethelandlies Latest 08 Feb 21 by rubytuesday	Replies:1 :519	Latest by rubytuesday 08 Feb 21
Adultery Victim. Feeling so alone. 17 years together, 9 married and 2 beautiful children aged 3 & 7. All ended because he had an affair. It feels like the worst kind of betrayal I ca ... 21 Jan 21, by Wealdenlady Latest 31 Jan 21 by LoveMyRascals	Replies:2 :661	Latest by LoveMyRascals 31 Jan 21
FRD panic First of all I would like to thank anyone that is willing to help. Here is my case: After over 10 years of marriage I decided to separate in 2 ... 27 Jan 21, by Beansontoast Latest 27 Jan 21 by wikivorce team	Replies:1 :631	Latest by wikivorce team 27 Jan 21
60 vs 18 I have an agreement to pay spousal maintenance until I’m 60. My two children are both now over 18. I’ve a few friends who have agreements to pay until their ... 21 Jan 21, by georgerussell Latest 21 Jan 21 by blkasset	Replies:4 :495	Latest by blkasset 21 Jan 21
Starting on my divorce journey Hi All, I'm starting on my divorce journey, we been together for over 37 years, need as much help and advice as i can get. Where do I stand if ... 15 Jan 21, by SYA470 Latest 16 Jan 21 by hadenoughnow	Replies:5 :622	Latest by hadenoughnow 16 Jan 21
Hello and help. Hi good folk. I'm here because I am about to talk to my wife about plans for separation and I want to be on firmer ground and not give in to anything she as ... 04 Jan 21, by Is this it? Latest 16 Jan 21 by hadenoughnow	Replies:1 :500	Latest by hadenoughnow 16 Jan 21
New to Divorce Hello Wikivorce and all who come before me. I am new to this divorce lark and I am trying to find my way around a few things and have somee questions. ... 03 Jan 21, by MrBeatsUK Latest 08 Jan 21 by Vigorate	Replies:1 :2146	Latest by Vigorate 08 Jan 21
Shocked and completely broken Hi everyone My husband of nearly 21 years is now leaving me with three children. I have spent years working hard to support him and even supported him throu ... 06 Dec 20, by Devasted20 Latest 02 Jan 21 by hadenoughnow	Replies:1 :656	Latest by hadenoughnow 02 Jan 21
consent order 17 years later i was emotionally broken and left the marraige ,i left the house and my wife with her pension and minimal mortgage to pay.in order to best provide for my son.i ... 28 Dec 20, by Paulashton6969@gmail.com Latest 29 Dec 20 by wikivorce team	Replies:1 :664	Latest by wikivorce team 29 Dec 20
Can you file for divorce in Australia before the end of the 1 year Separation My husband wants a divorce we have started the Australian mandatory 1 year separation. I want to get divorced in Australiia, but he is going to the UK in a coup ... 07 Dec 20, by gr0m1t Latest 14 Dec 20 by rubytuesday	Replies:1 :442	Latest by rubytuesday 14 Dec 20
On receiving end of serious (bull) shit slinging! Hi Main question at the bottom if you want to avoid the details! My FDR is days away. I'm the applicant as my abusive ex would not engage in mediat ... 25 Nov 20, by Lifeisarollercoaster Latest 27 Nov 20 by .Charles	Replies:3 :895	Latest by .Charles 27 Nov 20
Hi there Hello I’m lady di glad to be here hope this will help , very very depressed divorce is going to be war need some support ... 09 Nov 20, by Ladydi Latest 25 Nov 20 by Lifeisarollercoaster	Replies:2 :590	Latest by Lifeisarollercoaster 25 Nov 20
2nd divorce on the way! Hi there I am about to start proceedings for my second divorce! Not something that I thought I would be saying over 10 years ago when we got married, b ... 23 Nov 20, by craigmic Latest 25 Nov 20 by craigmic	Replies:2 :608	Latest by craigmic 25 Nov 20

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