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Assisted living My husband is alcohol addict He had a brain injury where he lost sight of one eye He had a bleed and was operated on taking veins from his legs so he is ... 15 Jul 20, by Carol Kidd Latest 16 Jul 20 by hadenoughnow	Replies:1 :561	Latest by hadenoughnow 16 Jul 20
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Form G Hi, I hope someone can help with this please. My son is representing himself and has completed and received his Wife's copy of From E. He is now ready to s ... 12 Jul 20, by Hadenough123 Latest 12 Jul 20 by hadenoughnow	Replies:1 :455	Latest by hadenoughnow 12 Jul 20
Facebook Can anyone give me guidance please? I have been told that my ex wife has been sharing some of my personal details with the ex husband of my new partner. I d ... 02 Jul 20, by Tannadice87 Latest 04 Jul 20 by WYSPECIAL	Replies:1 :620	Latest by WYSPECIAL 04 Jul 20
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Time to Leave Hello All, I need your advice. I am still with my Mrs and we’ve been married for 6 years. I think we both realised we made a mistake to marry each ot ... 25 Jun 20, by Deemango	Replies:0 :478
Just About to Ask to Separate-Divorce: Any Advice? Hi Everyone - I've planned to sit down with my husband one morning next week [when our child is at school] to let him know that I want to separate and divorce. ... 22 Jun 20, by MyBodyToldMe Latest 25 Jun 20 by hadenoughnow	Replies:1 :576	Latest by hadenoughnow 25 Jun 20
Hello all Great site, just having a look around and ask the odd question. Maybe I can help too. Looking forward to chatting with my co-divorcee's 24 Jun 20, by tinmac Latest 25 Jun 20 by hadenoughnow	Replies:1 :446	Latest by hadenoughnow 25 Jun 20
Your advice would be welcome Can anyone help me with some practical advice? My wife and I were married for 18 months before she decided to end the relationship. We had co-habited for about ... 21 Jun 20, by Pendragon Latest 22 Jun 20 by hadenoughnow	Replies:1 :515	Latest by hadenoughnow 22 Jun 20
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Court Hi everyone Please bear with me, it’s been a rough time. I’m divorced now and have a constant battle with my ex, I’ll try be brief but there’s a ... 22 May 20, by majordog Latest 25 May 20 by majordog	Replies:2 :621	Latest by majordog 25 May 20
Hello to all here Hi - just today recieved the solicitors letter from my wife (petitioner and claiming costs) and feeling a bit unsure of what to do next, if you will excuse the ... 21 May 20, by Trailsloth Latest 24 May 20 by Trailsloth	Replies:6 :518	Latest by Trailsloth 24 May 20
Hello Hi my name is Chris, My partner has finally received a report from an actuary which states her husband should transfer 37% of his pension to her. He is a fi ... 17 May 20, by Conanthelib Latest 20 May 20 by hadenoughnow	Replies:5 :590	Latest by hadenoughnow 20 May 20
Can wife move in new lover to my house ? Can I stop her living in my house with new boyfriend? ... 14 May 20, by Wardupp Latest 16 May 20 by rubytuesday 1 2	Replies:7 :1365	Latest by rubytuesday 16 May 20
buying a home with new partner but not yet divorced Hi, I have separated from my wife for approximately 25 months and we have lived apart for 22 months. We have a three year old daughter together. We sold our fam ... 13 May 20, by BP1981 Latest 13 May 20 by Vigorate	Replies:2 :654	Latest by Vigorate 13 May 20
Divorced Who, if anyone would qualify for 50% of a 1975 army pension when the pensioner is already divorced and has died? ... 30 Apr 20, by share.index Latest 30 Apr 20 by share.index	Replies:2 :672	Latest by share.index 30 Apr 20
Hi Hi, I'm Ed I'm 45 and have a 7 year old Daughter, I separated in Nov 2019. My marriage has been over for along time and after many years of be ... 22 Apr 20, by Newchapter	Replies:0 :542
Hello Hi, My name is Sonia, I am just about to turn 48 and I have three teenage daughters (13, 15, 18). I am Indian and had an arranged marriage. I have been ... 01 Apr 20, by Shakes76 Latest 02 Apr 20 by hadenoughnow	Replies:1 :568	Latest by hadenoughnow 02 Apr 20
Male Victim of Domestic Violence - Her Arrest Hi, My wife and I are divorcing. On monday she got arrested for assaulting me in front of our children then later threatening to throw a vase at me. 11 Mar 20, by mrmajestic Latest 15 Mar 20 by hadenoughnow	Replies:3 :700	Latest by hadenoughnow 15 Mar 20
Hello let me introduce myself I am divorced, with a sealed clean break consent order - part way through enforcing. I find self rep’ing challenging but financially essential. < ... 15 Mar 20, by Liberty Bell	Replies:0 :635
Hubby is leaving me... what do I need to do ? Hi Everyone! Didn't expect to find myself here but last week my husband announced he didn't want to continue our marriage. We married in 2016 and have ... 09 Mar 20, by Chuckie04 Latest 09 Mar 20 by WYSPECIAL	Replies:1 :720	Latest by WYSPECIAL 09 Mar 20
Introduction and advice welcomed please.... Hi, I am new to the group and wish you all well in your own journeys! My current situation has now evolved that my children (now adults) are edging me t ... 02 Mar 20, by Valentine65 Latest 03 Mar 20 by hadenoughnow	Replies:1 :608	Latest by hadenoughnow 03 Mar 20
Divorced and Struggling Hello All, Completely new to this site; stumbled onto it by accident yesterday. Sorry, not really sure where to start. I received my decree absolute ye ... 16 Feb 20, by flopsy123 Latest 20 Feb 20 by Matlockgirl	Replies:4 :873	Latest by Matlockgirl 20 Feb 20
Bolt out of the blue wife and i have been married 18 years. She is bi-polar, ... 24 Jan 20, by pentreathsherpa Latest 25 Jan 20 by WYSPECIAL	Replies:1 :556	Latest by WYSPECIAL 25 Jan 20
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You Never Know someone till you Divorce them Hi All, Married young and it lasted 3-4 years with 1 baby boy. Broke down at 3 year=s, tried for 1 more year and we got nowhere so we separated. We ren ... 12 Dec 19, by shadymike9 Latest 23 Dec 19 by SR37	Replies:1 :713	Latest by SR37 23 Dec 19
Hi - Got petition today ( merry Christmas) Hi, I moved out in June after a very turbulent and toxic 7 year marriage , together 8 years have 1 child together- he has two from previous that I rais ... 23 Dec 19, by SR37	Replies:0 :521
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