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Starting Over
Hi all, forgive me if this does not come out the way it is intended but chat rooms and general forums are not my thing. I have enjoyed looking through the site ...
23 Feb 08, by trueblue
Latest 23 Feb 08 by dukey
Replies:3
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Latest by dukey
23 Feb 08
I am so shocked
I dont even know where to start. I am devestated, hurt and angry.

Me and my husband have been together for 8 years, married for 2 and a half, and on We ...
12 Feb 08, by Unhappyme
Latest 22 Feb 08 by Macky
Replies:19
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Latest by Macky
22 Feb 08
How do you cope ?
I have just had a bolt from the blue, my seemingly happy relationship of 9 years has been taken from me, its just over a week now that my husband announced he d ...
22 Feb 08, by needhimout
Latest 22 Feb 08 by needhimout
Replies:3
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Latest by needhimout
22 Feb 08
hello
just joined feel very silly. I have been separated from m husband since i found out he was having another affair in Aug 07. We have 1 little boy of 7 who idoli ...
20 Feb 08, by 2xfoolish
Latest 21 Feb 08 by 2xfoolish
Replies:4
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Latest by 2xfoolish
21 Feb 08
Hello - should I be here?
I am married (26 years) and have 2 grown-up (20+) children still at home. So what am I doing on here? Well I am thinking of leaving my wife in the near future a ...
19 Feb 08, by Urban Spaceman
Latest 21 Feb 08 by gone1
Replies:14
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Latest by gone1
21 Feb 08
Wrote him a beggin letter - no reply
seperated for 5 months and desperate to try again so wrote him a letter telling him how I had changed through counselling and asking could we try again (married ...
18 Feb 08, by stripeuk
Latest 20 Feb 08 by megan
Replies:10
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Latest by megan
20 Feb 08
introduce myself
I am initial processes of my second divorce (doesn't that sound awful) -but the first time I was married for 20 years and it was an amicable divorce really beca ...
20 Feb 08, by shirleylane
Latest 20 Feb 08 by chillygirl
Replies:4
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Latest by chillygirl
20 Feb 08
Financial help!
Hi, I'm desperate for some advice - so here goes: I was divorced from my first husband 10 years ago - v.painfull at the time - he left me pregnant & with 3 ...
19 Feb 08, by KEGW
Latest 19 Feb 08 by chillygirl
Replies:2
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Latest by chillygirl
19 Feb 08
hello, my story
How is it so easy to marry, yet so complicated to divorce??

I married in july 06 and left my husband while he was in the police cells for domestic viol ...
19 Feb 08, by chillygirl
Latest 19 Feb 08 by chillygirl
Replies:5
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Latest by chillygirl
19 Feb 08
Hello ALL!!
Hi all,
Just wanted to introduce myself as joined yesterday and guess Im going to be spending a fair bit of time with you all! Been separated for a couple o ...
17 Feb 08, by soontobebroke
Latest 17 Feb 08 by dukey
Replies:2
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Latest by dukey
17 Feb 08
How do we know our exes are not also members?
Just a thought but seen as though when you type in 'divorce' to a google search, wikivorce comes up a lot. how can we protect ourselves from not letting our exe ...
16 Feb 08, by loopylou
Latest 17 Feb 08 by soontobebroke
Replies:4
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Latest by soontobebroke
17 Feb 08
Divorcing before financials complete
Hi everyone,

I'm new to the site and have a potentially odd divorce situation that I need some advice on please? Here's the facts :-

I was m ...
16 Feb 08, by captainobvious
Latest 17 Feb 08 by beastyboy
Replies:7
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Latest by beastyboy
17 Feb 08
Introducing myself
Hi all,

Thought I would pop up a quick thread to say hi - the whole sorry story of what leads me here is in a blog that I posted this morning -
17 Feb 08, by Pundit
Latest 17 Feb 08 by Pundit
Replies:2
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Latest by Pundit
17 Feb 08
confused and dazed....
Hi all

Thought I would say a quick hello and introduce myself as I can see I am going to be using this site as a great resource.
I am 35 and have b ...
13 Feb 08, by JimmyJam
Latest 16 Feb 08 by hostee
Replies:12
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Latest by hostee
16 Feb 08
I've joined today....
and thought I'd better introduce myself. My name is, well Nick, you will have guessed that I guess from my user name!

I will have been married 29 years ...
15 Feb 08, by NickJ
Latest 15 Feb 08 by Clearsea
Replies:6
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Latest by Clearsea
15 Feb 08
Valentine's Night - what are you doing?
For those of you that don't know me, I separated from my wife 12 months ago. We co-own a small hotel and restaurant. We have to continue working together, des ...
11 Feb 08, by mike62
Latest 14 Feb 08 by 80SGIRLWOKEUP
Replies:41
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Latest by 80SGIRLWOKEUP
14 Feb 08
Hi folks, just wanted to introduce myself.
Started 2007 with the knowledge of my wife’s' infidelity - apparently she was going to tell me in the New Year, but I had already found out at the beginning o ...
14 Feb 08, by GettingBetter
Latest 14 Feb 08 by sallyanne
Replies:7
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Latest by sallyanne
14 Feb 08
LoopyLou Says Thanks to you all of you!
Hello all
Thanks to all of the messages I have received on here. You all (and you know who you are) have managed to carry me today and I feel so much better ...
13 Feb 08, by loopylou
Latest 14 Feb 08 by attilladahun
Replies:2
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Latest by attilladahun
14 Feb 08
bang the nail in the coffin
Share the love....... is there any out there??????????
Do you ever trust again and find the match or is being single the best way to try and stay sane!!!!.< ...
12 Feb 08, by hostee
Latest 12 Feb 08 by rubytuesday
Replies:4
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Latest by rubytuesday
12 Feb 08
help?
Hi,

We have been trying to get our marriage back on to the straight and narrow for just under five years now.
My wife of nearly 12 years (we're bot ...
25 Jan 08, by Agoogy
Latest 12 Feb 08 by Agoogy
Replies:6
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Latest by Agoogy
12 Feb 08
how long does a divores take
how long do iget to sell the house:S ...
11 Feb 08, by ferryman
Latest 11 Feb 08 by mike62
Replies:1
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Latest by mike62
11 Feb 08
What happened to me yesterday?
Wow, what happened to me yesterday! If any of you have read any of my previous posts you will know that I found out about my wife’s 4 month affair on xmas day ...
01 Feb 08, by phoenix1
Latest 11 Feb 08 by sallyanne
Replies:8
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Latest by sallyanne
11 Feb 08
Seperation from an alcoholic
Hi,
I am new to this site and am not used to using these kinds of forums, so I hope that I am doing this correctly.
My wife is an alcoholic and I can no ...
30 Jan 08, by marky22
Latest 08 Feb 08 by ilapak
Replies:14
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Latest by ilapak
08 Feb 08
Just out of interest
how many of you, if any tried going to relate prior to divorce, did you go together alone? I've been myself and with stb Xh and now he is going alone (same cou ...
08 Feb 08, by Shocked
Latest 08 Feb 08 by RightAsRain
Replies:1
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Latest by RightAsRain
08 Feb 08
REMOVAL OF POST IN FORUM
Can i suggest that the post entitled
SELL YOUR HOUSE FAST
is removed, it is blatant advertising and againt forum rules
If you wish to sell your home ...
08 Feb 08, by 80SGIRLWOKEUP
Latest 08 Feb 08 by wikivorce team
Replies:3
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Latest by wikivorce team
08 Feb 08
Overseas divorce
Hello all

I have just found this site, great :woohoo:
I ...
07 Feb 08, by Siesta
Latest 08 Feb 08 by Fiona
Replies:2
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Latest by Fiona
08 Feb 08
Another Newbie
Hi everyone, just found this site and want to introduce myself. I am an applicant in a divorce that has been ongoing for about 2 years now. I was with my ex-p ...
07 Feb 08, by bubi2
Latest 07 Feb 08 by bubi2
Replies:3
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Latest by bubi2
07 Feb 08
are you new here
Hello if your new like me wellcome, in the last two weeks i have had all of my questions answered found loads of imfo and met some wacky poeple so dont be shy i ...
07 Feb 08, by dukey
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New
I've been married 5 years, have two little ones 4 and 1 and my other half has been unfaithful previously. We've tried working at it, but the reality is my heart ...
02 Feb 08, by heffalump
Latest 06 Feb 08 by gone1
Replies:2
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Latest by gone1
06 Feb 08
Am I Divorced?
Hi, I'm new to this. It might sound strange, but I'm trying to find out if I'm divorced. At present I live in England, but about 18 months ago I left my wife in ...
03 Feb 08, by chopper9
Latest 05 Feb 08 by chopper9
Replies:4
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Latest by chopper9
05 Feb 08
just thinking
Hi , we have been wed for 27 years and the loving has been going down for years. No physical contact for 3 1/2 years. Kids are about 22 and 18. Trouble is my sp ...
01 Feb 08, by Hen1212
Latest 03 Feb 08 by Hen1212
Replies:7
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Latest by Hen1212
03 Feb 08
I am new
Hi i have just separated from my husband,i more or less pushed him to leave,he use to ignore me for weeks at a time over trivial things.He was a very jealous pe ...
25 Jan 08, by josie
Latest 02 Feb 08 by josie
Replies:16
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Latest by josie
02 Feb 08
Mutual agreement on unreasonable behavoiur
Hi
My wife and i are looking to divorce as quickly as possible.
We are not separated but we have lived together in hell for the sake of the kids for the ...
02 Feb 08, by ukstu
Latest 02 Feb 08 by Josh2008
Replies:5
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Latest by Josh2008
02 Feb 08
Im new, and my head hurts !!
:(Hi,im new and

I really dont know what im doin.
My husband a ...
29 Jan 08, by sandz
Latest 31 Jan 08 by IKNOWNOW
Replies:5
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Latest by IKNOWNOW
31 Jan 08
Short & Sweet
Hi All,

I will try and keep this short & sweet. Me and hubby seperated 6 months ago. He left me and the litle one for 4 months and then re-appeare ...
29 Jan 08, by bamik
Latest 29 Jan 08 by andy100
Replies:1
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Latest by andy100
29 Jan 08
hello
Hi everyone, what a great forum to find. I can;t believe how busy it is in here! It's good to know that I'm not the only one going through this and that, from w ...
29 Jan 08, by JB954
Latest 29 Jan 08 by gone1
Replies:1
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Latest by gone1
29 Jan 08
Advice needed
The wife and I sat down tonight after months of arguing and agreed we should split up.
We are trying to think of a way to do it that will be fair for both.< ...
25 Jan 08, by essexmale
Latest 27 Jan 08 by Monitor441
Replies:9
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Latest by Monitor441
27 Jan 08
My Story
Hi I am Josh, friend to all lover of none - well at present anyway ...
23 Jan 08, by Josh2008
Latest 25 Jan 08 by montana
Replies:8
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Latest by montana
25 Jan 08

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