Things that you didn't realise you'd miss

i miss a bacon and sausage sandwich at the weekend , groping her bum and breasts whenever i wanted , staring st her curves , buying her presents
i wrote a list of costs and benefits of end of relationship - not many costs but lots of benefits - i am working on rectifying the costs and enjoying the benefits
i review the list every few days and it helps loads

Thanks for making me chuckle, click, appreciate your honesty
Glad to hear you've found a way of helping you to weigh up the good and bad. Think I'll give it a go!

Initially when we split I missed her loads of times...... but eventually my aim got better!

O yes... I agree with all you have said in my case it was a "her".
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I miss the warm hugs I got after a long hard stressful day at work.I wonder if he hugs her in the same way:(

As for the ring....when I realised that there was no repairing us or going back I handed it back to him...along with all the wedding photos and the wedding dvd as well, outa sight outa mind?

i miss the feeling of being wanted and having someone to come home to, someone to share problems with.
my stbx has changed so much, she can't even look at me any more, just lashes out and finds argument in every single word.
the list of things i miss grows shorter by the day i think so i must be coming out the other side at last.

Like Chris there are a few things I miss, obviously the hugs, I actually miss making her the first cup of tea of the day just before I set off for work, and I miss the cuddles on the sofa.

Since splitting, she has become very distant and wont even answer emails concerning the diviorce.

My ring as I have stated before is now somewhere on the M1 near the M6 junction.

I miss quite a few things - the good news is - I dont miss her.

TUF