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Hi all

Many of you may know me (TEIN) by my blogging on the trials and tribulations of my life right now which as a MASSIVE UNDERSTATMENT is the worst ...

30 Apr 12, by TEIN
Latest 24 Apr 25 by romulsdefroz
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24 Apr 25
My husband has applied for divorce I have received the form to fill out and send back as the respondent. I am unsure about question 7 Do you intend to ask the ...

15 Apr 25, by Cat543
Latest 17 Apr 25 by WYSPECIAL
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17 Apr 25
Good morning,
I am completing Form E and have a question please re. 1.16 which asks
1.16 Your present residence and the occupants of it and on what term ...

14 Apr 25, by Ainres
Latest 15 Apr 25 by Ainres
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15 Apr 25
Good Afternoon,

Me (52 years old) and my husband (51 years old) of 28 years are currently undergoing divorce proceedings and dividing finances with the ...

12 Apr 25, by TheApplicant
Latest 15 Apr 25 by WYSPECIAL
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15 Apr 25
We have now got as far as a draft consent order which agrees I will buy out my spouse of the marital home.
We own as joint tenants with an existing mortgage ...

11 Apr 25, by ThisIsGoingWell
Latest 12 Apr 25 by WYSPECIAL
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12 Apr 25
My stbx and I are cohabitating and have already applied for the divorce. We are currently waiting to apply for the conditional order.

We have a joint m ...

11 Apr 25, by JimBob83
Latest 12 Apr 25 by WYSPECIAL
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12 Apr 25
Hi can anyone help after three months since a house was sold the money has still not been released from the solicitor holding it this is because my ex partner r ...

20 Dec 24, by PeeledBanana
Latest 10 Apr 25 by PeeledBanana
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10 Apr 25
Can anyone tell me where the recipient of under a globalised maintenance order stands when it comes to co-habitation? The court order only stipulates 'marriage' ...

09 Apr 25, by wheredoistand?
Latest 10 Apr 25 by WYSPECIAL
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10 Apr 25
Hello Wikivorcers,

I am the Applicant in a financial order case, and the judge has ordered Narrative/witness Statements regarding a marital asset, wh ...

09 Apr 25, by Helpmenot
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I want to understand what the court's attitude to mediation is these days and if I have to carry on wasting time, energy and money on it when it seems pointless ...

09 Apr 25, by herewegoagain!
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Hello,

My in-laws divorced in 1999. The house was transferred to my mother-in-law but with a charge of 25% net value to be paid to my father-in-law o ...

08 Apr 25, by LisaW
Latest 09 Apr 25 by WYSPECIAL
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09 Apr 25
Hello,

Thanks in advance for any assistance.

We've agreed to submit separate D81s as my EXH wouldn't agree to my D81.

However, there' ...

05 Apr 25, by Angiebmw
Latest 08 Apr 25 by WYSPECIAL
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08 Apr 25
Hi, I am somewhat confused and would appreciate the collective pearls of wisdom please. The divorce was completed and there was a consent order established in 2 ...

05 Apr 25, by Hepialid1106
Latest 08 Apr 25 by WYSPECIAL
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08 Apr 25
Hi everyone.

I would be very appreciative of any advice, views or thoughts on my situation and whether it would be considered fair and meet the criteri ...

05 Apr 25, by Amicable couple
Latest 07 Apr 25 by WYSPECIAL
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07 Apr 25
I have a larger pension than my ex, (mine is 300k and his is 60k) while I am aware that I will need to provide a pension share. My ex has a higher salary of a ...

06 Apr 25, by Clare1408
Latest 07 Apr 25 by WYSPECIAL
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07 Apr 25
Looking for advice on financial resolution. Court hearing in July - FDR.

Currenty, me, stbx and our two teenage children are all still living in Mari ...

07 Apr 25, by BuzzVoy08
Latest 07 Apr 25 by WYSPECIAL
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07 Apr 25
Hi
My ex-husband and I have a child arrangement order (CAO) that stipulates our children (ages 14 & 10) spend every weds overnight with him, then tak ...

03 Apr 25, by Purplerainbow
Latest 07 Apr 25 by WYSPECIAL
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07 Apr 25
Hi - my ex and I were ordered by the court order to split a life insurance. Insurance company does not have a form for this so need a deed of assignment written ...

03 Apr 25, by easyrider
Latest 05 Apr 25 by WYSPECIAL
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05 Apr 25
Hi, I would welcome some advice please before getting married.

My partner and I have been together 4 years but don't live together.

She wants ...

04 Apr 25, by SomePrivateUser
Latest 05 Apr 25 by WYSPECIAL
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05 Apr 25
I have been following and contributing to the brave post by Samchik regarding sex and love in marriage.

One poster went on slightly apprehensive that s ...

11 Apr 12, by soulruler
Latest 02 Apr 25 by kentkouh
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02 Apr 25
D81
Ive agreed a sum.with the ex and lawyer has drafted the d81.
however I need to add a date for when I will pay the amount and also a date for me to take ov ...

01 Apr 25, by Fluorine79
Latest 02 Apr 25 by WYSPECIAL
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02 Apr 25
Hi,

Im in real deserate need of some help or advice or just anything at all that may help me in my situation.

Ive been going throught a divo ...

01 Apr 25, by Khione
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We are close to finalising the consent order, we have agreed settlement terms and there are no further assets to be divided

As an aside, my ex husban ...

31 Mar 25, by Vic1977
Latest 31 Mar 25 by WYSPECIAL
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31 Mar 25
Hi,
Our CO states my that ex pays maintenance to our two kids until they 'graduate from tertiary education'. This he did for eldest's BA and is now voluntar ...

28 Mar 25, by caitriona
Latest 31 Mar 25 by caitriona
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31 Mar 25
Hi All,

I applied for a divorce after 6 years of emotional abuse and coercive control of myself and my children from my husband. He is refusing to move ...

05 Sep 24, by SuddenlySingle38
Latest 31 Mar 25 by romulsdefroz
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Latest by romulsdefroz
31 Mar 25
Divorce was finalised last summer. We have one child with shared custody. I didn't realise I needed a separate financial separation until I was advised as such ...

28 Mar 25, by Yorkie12
Latest 29 Mar 25 by WYSPECIAL
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29 Mar 25
FDR
Is it advisable to have counsel for an FDR my husband had one for initial and I cannot see the justification for the cost, my solicitor attended with me. I can ...

26 Mar 25, by Noidea24
Latest 27 Mar 25 by WYSPECIAL
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27 Mar 25
So my husband and I have our divorce in process, we were married for 14 years, have 2 children aged 8 and 12. We would like to do a consent order but don't have ...

25 Mar 25, by jemmawright165@yahoo.com
Latest 26 Mar 25 by WYSPECIAL
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26 Mar 25
So my husband and I have our divorce in process, we were married for 14 years, have 2 children aged 8 and 12. We would like to do a consent order but don't have ...

25 Mar 25, by jemmawright165@yahoo.com
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Hello everyone. I'm separating from my husband (England) and things have turned sour and I'm uncertain if I would be overreacting to report some of the behaviou ...

24 Mar 25, by Isabelle_Nook
Latest 25 Mar 25 by Jdjdheudv
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25 Mar 25
We have our first joint mediation session on Friday and I'm really nervous. I hate video calls anyway which makes it worse. What's the first session like? ...

24 Mar 25, by Jdjdheudv
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Divorce, civil partnership dissolution or nullity proceedings: to increase from £593 to £612

Financial Remedy Proceedings (contested finances ...

24 Mar 25, by rubytuesday
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My friends ex husband is now in a relationship and living with his solicitor's Legal secretary. My friend has received a 7 page letter regarding their financial ...

23 Mar 25, by Xela24
Latest 24 Mar 25 by .Charles
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Latest by .Charles
24 Mar 25
****Anyone reading this, Please see my court outcome Post on 24 March 2025"

Getting fed up and stressed.
Latest 24 Mar 25 by Ali124
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24 Mar 25
Hi all. Does anyone have any idea/experience on what is classed as a short marriage. I’ve heard that this can differ depending on the judge.
We cohabite ...

22 Mar 25, by InTheNightSky
Latest 22 Mar 25 by InTheNightSky
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22 Mar 25
Hello everyone,I'm new to the forum and wanted to introduce myself and share my situation. I'm seeking advice on obtaining a financial clean break following a s ...

21 Mar 25, by Jamo
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Hello everyone, I guess this is my last post after being on here 18 years, ( nearly).
I need some proper advice please,

My child is 18 next mon ...

16 Mar 25, by chatsworth08
Latest 21 Mar 25 by chatsworth08
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Latest by chatsworth08
21 Mar 25
Im hoping to get some advice, guidance, opinions on what a likely outcome is based on my circumstances below.

Currently going through a separation. I ...

19 Mar 25, by Wanderers88
Latest 20 Mar 25 by WYSPECIAL
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1
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Latest by WYSPECIAL
20 Mar 25
Hello

I really could do with some help.

I submitted the e form, and having spent hours preparing all supporting documents, submitted them all ...

14 Feb 25, by seabz
Latest 20 Mar 25 by EnJayAitch
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Latest by EnJayAitch
20 Mar 25
Together 18y, married 14. Husband has narcissistic tendancies and can be extremely charming and persuasive.
I put a third towards house and paid a third of ...

16 Feb 25, by Redsara100
Latest 20 Mar 25 by EnJayAitch
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Latest by EnJayAitch
20 Mar 25

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